“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's-Me

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Seems like a lot of people around me are doing drugs (mostly weed). I'm just wondering what motivates them to do it? Why do they do it? Please share your opinions ;).

I honestly believe most people do it because they have nothing better to do. Honestly, people are just bored out of their mind. They just hang out all day cause they didn't discover their passion or something they enjoy doing. Man I manage a few sites and I'm very good with the computer... I don't have time do to drugs and I wouldn't want to anyways.

Of course, there's also social pressure (it's funny how that works! I can't help myself from laughing at this).

Ultimately, there's addiction which resulted from one of those two reasons.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rho

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I tried a lot of stuff once or twice to see what they were like, including the big H :eek: (which was awesome btw, I can easily see how people get addicted to that stuff)
Didn't get addicted to anything and got a bunch of cool stories out of it (mostly from hallucinogens like acid and mushrooms).

So they be my reasons.
 

War Against Betaism

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Because it makes them feel good.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Because it makes them feel good.
I think this sums it up quite well... at least in my case. I've done a wide variety of drugs including weed, MDMA, various prescription meds such as amphetamines, benzodiazepines, anabolics, salvia etc...

A lot of drugs such as amphetamines I use only during "extreme" circumstances, such as when you gotta pull a 12 or 16 hour shift and can't get to sleep the night before for whatever reason. With drugs like benzos, I'll only use VERY selectively to put myself to sleep. With anabolics I like how they make me feel and the effects they have on my body. I make money off of my build, and anabolics help me to stay in shape. I do them off and on, and currently have been off for almost a year. I don't need them, but like being "on". There are virtually no side effects that I experience because I do low doses.

As for weed and MDMA these are largely recreational drugs. I used to be quite chronic, but now will smoke weed once in a while. Sometimes I'll smoke before working out because it really helps me to concentrate on muscle contraction and focus on the lift.

Good MDMA is a fun drug! I've only done it a few times, but there's nothing like being on a good hit of E at an afterhours club where there's kickazz music. Again I might do this once a year if that...I don't really know how to get clean MDMA anymore, so I stay away as much as possible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SomethingClever

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Boredom is a cause, but another cause is depression. I'll honestly say that i started doing drugs because i had some issues to deal with that i really couldn't handle, or i thought i couldn't handle them. But nowadays, i just do it to have fun. I've done weed, shrooms and vicodin. I don't think i'll do anything else. Maybe salvia. But i don't know.
 
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