"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drug Addiction Holding Me Back

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Ok... so I'm young(21), tall(6'5), in pretty damn good shape(255 pounds at 10% bf, holding like 230 lean mass)

anyways,.... im addicted to marijuana.

yes addicted and no not mentally, physically.

if i dont smoke, i cant sleep(stay up till dawn and then i might pass out from exhaustion for maybe 4 hours max), i cant eat(talking like im lucky to get 1k cals a day, even if its yummy food)

now my thoughts was this... i might be addicted to the nicotine in the blunts i smoke... not sure. i think tis might be causing my withdrawl symptoms... anyways.. i want to quit... im ready to quit.... im starting the last two years of college and i need to focus on school.... and *****es...get this fog out of my head...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheSplat

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I've heard if you stop for a month, the memory problems will cease. You sound like a good friend of mine, except he's not "addicted...he just fvcking loves it!
 

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Giving it up is hard. You've just got to quit, right there. Stop what you're doing and stop smoking, dont go back to it.

It's tough, damn tough. They say it's not a drug you can get addicted to, but thats bollocks.

Just... quit. No easy ways. Get it sorted.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by DJBen

It's tough, damn tough. They say it's not a drug you can get addicted to, but thats bollocks.
true, but with a addiction percentage of only 4-7% percent it's highly unlikely.

If you're one of the unlucky ones (like a buddy of mine): just quit. It'll take approx 2 weeks to a month of withdrawal. Especially insomnia.

tips:
1. don't develop new crutches like eg alcohol.
2. don't try to stop using weed and sigarettes at the same time. Or if you don't smoke but use tobacco for your joints: Maybe you're also addicted to nicotine? (which has a addiction percentage of 99.5%)

DC
 

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thanks guys. ill prolly grab some stuff to help me sleep(over counter herbal stuff). and just stay strong mentally. i figure if i wake up 3-4 hours earlier the first couple days, maybe ill be tired enough to fall asleep normally.

don cruez - i think you're right. ive been smoking blunts(use the outside of a cigar to roll up weed). we dont use tobacco in our joints in the states lbut this is probably comparable.

and i dont smoke cigs either....

thanks guys
 

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Dude, just give out all your weed and stay away from it. Put all your cash in a bank account so you don't have any at hand to get weed.

For sleeping this is easy. Run til you can't run any more . Make a 10 mile loop and run it. I am not kidding. Wear yourself out so you have to sleep. your addiction will go away fairly quickly and you will be much better off.
 

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Cold Turkey was the best way I found to quit when I gave it up for about two months before summer started (thought I was going to get a job that had pee tests). Beforehand, I had smoked at least 2-3 times a day every day of the week for a couple months, so I wasn't your "casual stoner" by any means.

Sure, I blaze the herb now, but I did quit for a period of time before I got a different job that didn't test. Also, I severely cut down my usage (once or twice a week), so I'm not all brain-dead anymore.
 

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Doing heavy exercise also burns out the remnat TFC in your fat, maybe that will help you quit easier too
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If your ready to quit then quick stop being such a sandbagger you brought this upon yourself.
 

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Originally posted by Plane
Doing heavy exercise also burns out the remnat TFC in your fat, maybe that will help you quit easier too
yea trust this guy.....he has his own TFC version of THC
 

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I steadily smoked weed for about 4 years. Not because I was addicted, it was mainly because that's all me and friends did for fun. About 8 months ago, I just up and quit. I just got sick of always being broke and lazy. I also got pretty damn paranoid whenever I was around numerous people.

To this day, when I tell people I quit, they always look at me like I'm stupid or something. I don't miss it one bit.
 

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^ Going with what he said.

A main reason I stopped was because I felt "dumb" a lot. Like I'd just space out and look at stuff then all of a sudden snap back to reality. I still rip the tube nowadays, but I just don't have this persistant "Wow, I smoked myself retarded" feeling.

Give it up for brain cells!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good job. I saw a burnout - a true burnout - at a party a few months ago. The guy was absolutely pathetic... like his friends said that he was a completely normal guy a year before that, but just smoked too much - he was stone sober (well, high) and making a complete ass out of himself. People who didn't find out his story thought that the guy was mentally retarded to a degree.

Don't be like him.
 
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