Dropping girls for no reason really. Anyone else do this?

[narcissist]

I think I'm taking this whole "perpetual perfectionism" thing to a whole other level.

For example: I drop girls that Ive slept with 2-3 times who are into me and I like as well, just because I don't want to fall into stasis and comfortability. I do this because I feel in order to progress my self and my being I need to keep moving and putting myself in situations where I am forced to talk to new women and exercise my game.

Anyone else do this?

Your thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks!

 

[Uncharted]

I dropped two girls recently for small reasons.


One

She texted me a photo AND a video of a concert she was at, then kept texting who was going on next (it was from Governors Ball in NYC the other weekend).

Then she texted me about 15 times the following day.

Too much. I just stopped talking to her.


Two

Met a girl through class. She seemed really into me and kept texting asking when we were going to meet up again. She just seemed too clingy.


I think I'm enjoying the chase more than before.. as dumb as that sounds. I don't like when it's just thrown at me. I slept with both on the second date, if that means anything.

 

[YAboi]

I think I'm taking this whole "perpetual perfectionism" thing to a whole other level.

For example: I drop girls that Ive slept with 2-3 times who are into me and I like as well, just because I don't want to fall into stasis and comfortability. I do this because I feel in order to progress my self and my being I need to keep moving and putting myself in situations where I am forced to talk to new women and exercise my game.

Anyone else do this?

Your thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks!

So tell us how did she react after this? Let's hear the reality of things so that every guy does not think that it's easy to just cut women off cold turkey....

 

[jurry]

If i was 21 yr old college student in a big city yea maybe id try it.. But a 28 yr old balding cubicle monkey in the suburbs? Fukattahere haha..

 

[Kailex]

...just because I don't want to fall into stasis and comfortability.

Wouldn't that technically be a reason though?

I've actually stopped spinning a plate or two just because I knew it was too easy and I could call them up anytime and they would come out, even if it had been weeks.

Just last night I had one texting me to go out next week. I LJBFed her in December and we hadn't spoken since.

It CAN happen. Certainly didn't happen to me five years ago, but it does now.

 

[SgtSplacker]

This is my secret weapon...

 

[narcissist]

I see what you guys are saying.

I was just curious if anyone literally drops girls NOT because they don't want them anymore but simply because they want to keep getting different girls in order to keep improving on their game for the sake of becoming better men.

Ive done this multiple times now, and honestly, the girls I have dropped are cool and I have nothing wrong with them, I just personally feel like I have to do it to keep improving myself and evolving.

Sort of paradoxical if you ask me - The fact that I initially came here to get girls and now that I am getting girls, I'm dropping them in order to tighten up my game with the end goal to get better at getting girls. haha.

Does that make any sense what so ever?

 

[Willard]

Sounds like you're in a great place, keep up the good work, at 21 and good with girls why bother settling for just one.

 

[pdx1138]

ya dude, at your age, that's what you should be doing.

 

[El Payaso]

So tell us how did she react after this? Let's hear the reality of things so that every guy does not think that it's easy to just cut women off cold turkey....

I'm with YAboi on this one.

 

[MOTU]

Yea I do this too, like a continuos plate upgrade process. I think I like the thrill of the hunt. As soon as I start to feel too comfortable with a plate I drop it, even if I don't have any other active plates.

I used to be really overweight and now my gym work is paying off so I want to test my limits with hotter chicks. My date last night was the hottest yet, and my game was tight. I enjoyed the challenge and the engagement. No way I could have gotten this girl a year ago, and the only thing that prevented me from fvcking her last night was logistics.

But today I am going to troll the Mexican flea market to see if I can open an even hotter one.

 

[MOTU]

Oh, and as for backlash when you drop a plate: I posted a thread on this topic in the Mature Man forum. Maybe it's easier for us older guys, but so far my drama has been minimal.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Dropping girls because you believe you need to be constantly improving is a sign of insecurity.

You're basically saying there are girls out there that you're not good enough for yet.

If you dropped girls because you were no longer feeling them, then I would understand, but as you said that isn't the case.

Having relationships with women isn't a career...nor is it a competition.

Sports athletes need to constantly improve because their competitors are always improving...businesses need to keep improving for the same reasons.

This is just pvssy we're talking about, if you can make a girl wet you can f*ck her...there really isn't anything more to it.