"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

dropped the ball.. any recourse?

D

Demodulate

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2003
Messages
264
Reaction score
5
basically I haven't escalated with this girl when I should have and now its getting awkward..

I should of slept with her last weekend, but I b1tched out, and now its slowly on course for LJBF..

what do I do? cut her lose, and wait for her to come back around?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

T

thevilittletroll

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2011
Messages
330
Reaction score
12
Location
Tampa, FL
old saying remains true in this case too. its better to try and fail then not try at all. its really all you can do.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top