Drop your best tinder/OLD openers - here is mine

[Genetic Error]

here is mine atm, I think they like it when I say their face is cute but it also makes them qualify + leads to interesting convo straight away instead of bull**** like how are you where u from what u do for work

 

[MatureDJ]

When I first saw you, it moved.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Pre pandemic: "Now that we are tinder matches we can get married right?"

At the beginnig of the pandemic: "How´s ur apocalypse going?"

Post abundance: Nothing special, just "Hey girl. How´s ur weekend going?" When matching during weekend. If matching Monday/Tuesday it was "Hey girl. How was your weekend?". If matching Wednesday/Thursday "Hey girl. Any cool plans for the upcoming weekend?"

 

[Black Widow Void]

“You’re parents must have been mentally retarded… ‘cause you sure look special.”

Kidding of course.

Back when I was working it on line. I’d always look for something unique that differentiated them from the pack.

When I initiated my first email, I would focus on that particular attribute. The message would then seem more personalized than the typical generic ice-breaker. They were more likely to respond too… because they could tell that it wasn’t some glib line or some line picked up off of a forum.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Example? If they had a big nose, you'd focus on that?

Dude. Be serious. Haha

It could be anything from jewelry, a location in their photograph, something mentioned in their profile, etc…

Being too attentive to women is of course never a good idea. However, for an intro… We need to differentiate ourselves from their bombardment of generic icebreakers.

The intro lets him know that we noticed them rather than just dropping the random cut and paste bait.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Here’s a word to the wise. Always, I repeat always proofread your postings when they are voice to text… Before sending

The intro lets him know that we noticed them rather than just dropping the random cut and paste bait.

The intro lets THEM (not “him”) know that we noticed them rather than dropping the random cut and paste bait.