"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fumbduck

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A juvenile question in my opinion, but figured i'd ask...

When first dating: I do not mind driving to go pick up the girl, then go out on our date- dropping her off at night, and calling it an evening.

The question is, can it be seen as a form of weakness when a man always picks up the girl, to go on the date...or do women like this?

If i could drive all the time i would, i personally like it- but what do ya'll do?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Personally i love driving myself, i just feel more comfortable being in the drivers seat. However, if I happen to go out with the same girl multiple times then i refuse to pick her up at her house every single time, but i will tell her to drive to my house and we can hop in my car. This way when the night is over i can coerce her back into my place with ease.
 

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I don't trust fvcking girl drivers... seriously I don't like it...

Even when its their car I ask to drive. I will sometimes go with a girl driver but I'm usually not comfortable.

The question is, can it be seen as a form of weakness when a man always picks up the girl, to go on the date...or do women like this?
Why would the guy always taking control and leading be seen as weak? yeah weird question... its pretty trivial either way.
 

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Whatever. It all sounds so formal to me. You pick a girl up, you drive her to a date, then you drive her back home, then what? I bet go home and jerk off. Who cares.

You pick her up, she picks you up, cabby picks both of you up, it's no big deal.. In fact, I like to get drunk, so cabby is best.

Don't make a big deal out of it..

Make a big deal out of you just took her out and brough her home and no sex. Hopefully she bought her own drinks and food, otherwise she's prostituting drinks and foods for the promise of sex if you qualify.. In other words an expensive hoe.

How about you both agree to meet up at a coffee shop the end up at your place watching a movie.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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