"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Driving this girl crazy!

falconslax89

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so i am totally screwing with this girls head, and i owe it all to this site. this sexy girl is all over my balls because i didnt give in as soon as she showed she was interested and go all soft on her. im ****y, i make fun of her, i ignore her a lot of the time. and its driving her crazy!

she just sent me a text saying "stop acting like you dont like me!"

what should my response be. should i give in a little bit and say something like "what are you talking about?" and just play dumb or go even harder at her with "i dont like you!" or is that over doing it. or should i just not reply. i havent seen her in a few days bc shes been in california, but she comes back tomorrow..should i see her then or wait a few days?

thanks guy, any feedback would be appreciated!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pipe007

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hahaha niceee

i would say... "well and you should learn to control yourself a bit missy, its obvious that you like me"..... and laugh, like you making fun of her, and smile...

be funny about it. you dont need to give in, but keep amplifying it, keep i would say

" the thing is that i know that you like me soo much and you love me soo much, that i dont need to like you lol and laugh... you are being flirty when u say it.. she will open her mouth and hit you and then tickle her ( thas how you show her you like her)
 

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Don't be dumb and send her a message. Ignore that message, and it will drive her even crazier.
 

falconslax89

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pipe007 said:
hahaha niceee

i would say... "well and you should learn to control yourself a bit missy, its obvious that you like me"..... and laugh, like you making fun of her, and smile...

be funny about it. you dont need to give in, but keep amplifying it, keep i would say

" the thing is that i know that you like me soo much and you love me soo much, that i dont need to like you lol and laugh... you are being flirty when u say it.. she will open her mouth and hit you and then tickle her ( thas how you show her you like her)
haha thanks man i will definetely use this, but im talking about replying to her text imparticular.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Excellent job my man! I think overtly saying "I don't like you!" or something to that effect is going overboard. You have definitely gotten under her skin, and now she's trying to trip you up so you go AFC and she goes bye-bye. The hot ones are always looking for reasons not to like you. So don't give her one, she's thinking about you and it's driving her crazy. You are making her go AFC! Think about it, what would she do if it was YOU texting her "Quit acting like you don't like me!"

Bye-bye birdy indeed.

It seems that you have her where you want her. My advice is to not blow it. So I advise you to keep doing what you're doing, keep the texting and phone contact to a minimum, and get her in person soon. She's weakened but not smitten yet, now you strike the hot iron by getting her face to face.

I hope you bang this one, keep up the good work!
 

falconslax89

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Excellent job my man! I think overtly saying "I don't like you!" or something to that effect is going overboard. You have definitely gotten under her skin, and now she's trying to trip you up so you go AFC and she goes bye-bye. The hot ones are always looking for reasons not to like you. So don't give her one, she's thinking about you and it's driving her crazy. You are making her go AFC! Think about it, what would she do if it was YOU texting her "Quit acting like you don't like me!"

Bye-bye birdy indeed.

It seems that you have her where you want her. My advice is to not blow it. So I advise you to keep doing what you're doing, keep the texting and phone contact to a minimum, and get her in person soon. She's weakened but not smitten yet, now you strike the hot iron by getting her face to face.

I hope you bang this one, keep up the good work!
****ed her last night. feels simply wonderful
 
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