"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Driving me crazy

MacAvoy

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She is driving me crazy when I spend time with her now. After spending about 5 mins with her. I get this feeling, WTF am I doing here? Why do I choose to put myself through this. I find there is a constant struggle in my mind, should I get the funk out of here now or wait it out so you don't look like a complete ****.

She's become OCD and is just like her mother, tryin to control everything little detail in her life. Its like puttin up with hell but I tell ya once I get my pants off, its heaven on earth.

Reminds me of an old saying, "the sour makes the sweet that much sweeter". Now that I wrote that, I can tell it came from some Hollywood love story.

I can see a breaking point coming soon. Good thing I'm goin back to Ontario for a few days, will be good to be totally away from her for a while.

On a different note, at least she's lost her holy status in my head. Before I wanted to treat her life my wife and only do respectful things. Last night I was thinkin, damm I should so pimp her azz. Turn her into a sex kitten.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacAvoy

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I'm flyin in to Toronto, spending the night. Will head north to Sudbury tomorrow, spend a few days there, then head to scenic Manitoulin Island for a couple of days.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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