driving 6 hrs away for poon?

[azrael]

There was 1 time, about a decade ago, where I drove 5 hours to see a girl for the first time. I was a bona fide beta back there. I got nothing. If I were you, I wouldn't do it unless she either has high interest OR you have other things to do there and you literally happen to be in the neighborhood.

A better question is why you're even wasting time texting a girl for MONTHS who's that far away? Are there no women closer to you (you live in Alaska?)?

This.

he already wasted 3 months texting and all of that

6 hours is nothing compare to that
+ road trip.

 

[PlayHer Man]

PlayHerMan "As a man you should be bringing women into your world.. not going into their world.". Is that a golden rule of yours? I tought rules were meant to be broken! In no way I question your probable superior 28 year old intelligence and experience to mines of 21, but it kinda seems strange, so sorry about that man. I just don't understand!

The more you compromise, spend money, change your habits, blow off your friends and go out of your way to date/be with a woman.. the more devastated you will be when the relationship ends.

Does that make sense?

Here is another analogy: Lets say you spend 5 years saving up money to buy a car. You cut back on spending and sacrifice eating out, going out with friends and doing a lot of the stuff you enjoy so you can put this money away. Then once you finally have enough money for your dream car.. you head to the dealer to buy it.. then you get robbed and all the money you saved is gone forever. Now compare that to winning a large amount of money and deciding to buy a car with it the next day.. then you get robbed and the money is lost forever.

Which situation will be more devastating?

 

[hindsighted]

Yeah, i would for the most part agree. 6 hours is a long time for a first meeting. Ever see the new tv show catfish, on mtv? People arent who they claim to be via the social networking world... especially online dating (camera angles and best pics possible), even facebook isnt a guarantee. Everyone posts pictures and status of them having fun and looking good. What about the other 50+% of time?

Do your thing though. if you are on a dry spell, why the hell not? But unless shes a sloot, you have to expect to put in some work (like 3 days). Dont forget... If you established the relationship online, YOU & HER, both think and hope that the other is prince charming. Prepare to be disappointed, and she may be disappointed too which = no booty for you.

I would make the trip if you have physical history, thats just me.
What is everyone else's thoughts? Only make a road trip if you have hooked up before, or not at all?

 

[JoeMarron]

This is silly. She should be driving 6 hours to see you or at least you guys meeting halfway. You have a lot to learn sir. Someone needs to find a way to make reading the DJ Bible mandatory before a person's first post.

 

[evil_tomato]

she cant travel here due to financial difficulties and taking time off work. since im still on holidays i figured id go there.

 

[JoeMarron]

If your heart is set on going at least make her have a freshly baked cake waiting for you when you get there. Lol youre making this way too easy for her.

 

[escaleraroyal]

u crazy no!

 

[lamobatsman]

ur crazy man!!! why would you ever contemplate this?!
did u not learn from my story? the first time we met after 2 months she flies over to see me and screws me over and acts like its all ok. people arent who you think they are over the internet

 

[SgtSplacker]

As far as i'm concerned it all depends on my hornometer readings. If it's been months and the lay was a sure thing hells yes i'd drive!

If there's something local I can hit, no way i'd drive so far!

If it's an iffy thing the last thing you want to do is roll your horny arse over to her house only to start feeling like some kind of out of town predator trying to lay this girl.

If you don't even feel comfortable talking to this girl about sex don't go.