"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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brad67

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Im finally getting mine in a couple weeks. Im one of the earlier ones on my class to get mine, and I want to take advantage of it when it comes to girls. What are some good things to do in the car? Places to take girls? How do I tell when a girl just wants to use me for a ride or is really into me? Good ways to hookup with girls in my car? Anything would help, thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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immrtlwun

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Good things to do in your car- drive, make out, have sex, all the above at once

Places to take girls- see the thread about places to go on dates

Telling if a girl is just using you- i dont' know

Good ways to hook up in your car- be creative, just keep a condom or two in your glove box.
 

Brian20o2

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from what ive seen, the really flirty girls are the ones who probly just want a ride home. ya know the ones who are like *come up to your window* "hey. care to give me a ride?" *while they kino your arm and stuff*
 

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Teach her how to drive.
Then take the wheel and do some POWER turns and some donuts with the excuse of "let me turn around" or "ahh! I know what I can do" (forward and backwards)

weeeee!

if she's holding onto the E-Brake, you know she's a little scared..so reach over and....
 

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son. once u get your license all the little freshman will be like "oh my goooodddd take me for riiiieddddeesss!"

****in thats the ultimate easy way to get on dates.

then dates who cares, go to a movie and chill. then if shes cool take her somewhere thta costs a little more like dinner or something next time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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