What are some alcoholic drinks to keep in the fridge for females and possible hook ups? Drinks that don't scream "I bought these girl drinks hoping you'd drink them so you'd hook up with me!" Even though that's pretty much what the intention is.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wrong frame, how about:Maeisgood said:"I bought these girl drinks hoping you'd drink them so you'd hook up with me!" Even though that's pretty much what the intention is.
Wine for the older birds and vodka raspberry chick drinks for the young ones. I wouldn't worry too much, most "modern women" are booze hounds anyway and will generally drink whatever you got. Keep something that's super sweet and something that's bitter/savoury. That's plenty enough.Maeisgood said:What are some alcoholic drinks to keep in the fridge for females and possible hook ups?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.