"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Drinks to keep around for women

Maeisgood

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What are some alcoholic drinks to keep in the fridge for females and possible hook ups? Drinks that don't scream "I bought these girl drinks hoping you'd drink them so you'd hook up with me!" Even though that's pretty much what the intention is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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old_skoolr

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wine, b..itches love to think there classy. And make sure you know the difference bout some wines so they think your classy and have an excuse to f.uck you
 

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Maeisgood said:
"I bought these girl drinks hoping you'd drink them so you'd hook up with me!" Even though that's pretty much what the intention is.
Wrong frame, how about:

"Yep I bought all these because I entertain and drunk fvck other chicks besides you snowflake. You tingly?"

Maeisgood said:
What are some alcoholic drinks to keep in the fridge for females and possible hook ups?
Wine for the older birds and vodka raspberry chick drinks for the young ones. I wouldn't worry too much, most "modern women" are booze hounds anyway and will generally drink whatever you got. Keep something that's super sweet and something that's bitter/savoury. That's plenty enough.
 

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Wine-Mascoto, Bud light lime, Grey Goose Vodka, Ciroc and B&J's wine coolers or Smirnoff Ice.
 

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Tequila
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheVirtualMind

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Discussion. Goes down smooth, just like she will!
 

Greasy Pig

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An array if spirits and mixers, pre-bottled vodka drinks, wine and beer.
In saying that, if a chick really wants to fvck you, she won't be interested in drinking, but if she insists on a nightcap, or you want to keep the party going and get her tipsy enough to fvck, or you've got her over for a movie and dinner, it's best to have a wide range of options in your leg-opening arsenal.
 
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