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Drinks and Personality

Starman

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A while back somebody asked whether what a girl drank could tell about her personality..I found this list a friend sent me

Bartenders Psychology:
> Before you order a drink in public, you should read this!
>
> Seven New York City bartenders were asked if they could nail a woman's
> personality based on what she drinks. Though interviewed separately,
> they
> concurred on almost all counts.
>
> The results:
>
> Drink: Beer
> Personality: Causal, low-maintenance; down to earth.
> Your Approach: Challenge her to a game of pool.
>
>
> Drink: Blender Drinks
> Personality: Flaky, whiny, annoying; a pain in the ass.
> Your Approach: Avoid her, unless you want to be her cabana boy.
>
>
> Drink: Mixed Drinks
> Personality: Older, more refined, high maintenance, has very picky
> taste;
> knows EXACTLY what she wants.
> Your Approach: You won't have to approach her. If she's interested,
> she'll
> send YOU a drink.............
>
>
> Drink: Wine (does not include White Zinfandel)
> Personality: Conservative and classy; sophisticated yet giggles.
> Your Approach: Tell her you love to travel and spend quiet evenings with
> friends.
>
>
> Drink: White Zinfandel
> Personality: Easy; thinks she is classy and sophisticated, actually, she
> has
> NO clue.
> Your Ap proach: Make her feel smarter than she is...this should be an
> easy
> target.
>
>
> Drink: Shots
> Personality: Likes to hang with frat-boy pals and looking to get
> totally drunk... and naked.
> Your Approach: Easiest hit in the joint. You have been blessed. Nothing
> to
> do but wait, however, be careful not to make her mad!
>
>
> Drink: Tequila
> No explanations required - everyone just KNOWS what happens there.
>
>
>
>
> THEN, there is the MALE addendum ----
> The deal with guys is, as always, very simple and clear cut:
>
>
> Domestic Beer: He's poor and wants to get laid.
>
>
> Imported Beer: He likes good beer and wants to get laid.
>
>
> Wine: He is hoping that the wine will give him a sophisticated image to
> help
> him get laid.
>
>
> Whiskey: He doesn't give a damn about anything but getting laid.
>
>
> Tequila: He is thinking he has a chance with the toothless waitress.
>
>
> White Zinfandel: He's gay
>
 

thissucks003

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You approach each gal as "yourself" and gain deep rapport. You don't want to come in on an approach with the mindset that this gal a b*tch, this gal is easy going, etc...You approach with a blank slate that you can win her over with your personality as if nothing can stop you.

TS
 

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Nope.

Humans are creatures of change and adaptation. Like Social Chameleons.

Sure if you want a LTR and you want the girl to love the oh so real you, and you can live the rest of your life in a park licking each others ice cream cones.

But if you wanna get laid..or hook up..it helps to know her personality and change yours respectively.

Why do you think we look for social cues about women? so that we know what to talk about, what their interests are, how you should behave etc
 

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But if you wanna get laid..or hook up..it helps to know her personality and change yours respectively.

Why would you change your personality to match hers? That's weak. She should be matching your personality and not the other way around. She for the most part should follow your lead. Most gals won't lead. They want you to lead.

Why do you think we look for social cues about women? so that we know what to talk about, what their interests are, how you should behave etc

I don't. I go in without cues. By the time you wait for an opportunity to make, let's say eye contact, someone else has made their move. Why waste your time?

Most gals won't open up about their interests. You have to open up about your interest first. You talk about what your values are so she would also.

I have to catch a flight. I will post back when I have time next week.

TS
 

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Ah, tequila.

Give a woman three or four shots of that devil juice and she'll either rip you clothes off or try to kill you.
 

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this post is humorus and could fall true some of the time but i would not live by it
 

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What about the chick out in the parking lot funnelling 4 Natty Ices and a Beast before she gets in the joint?
 
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