"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drinking

HolyG

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Has anyone here ever gotten laid WITHOUT Alcohol?

As a non-drinker, sometimes I think it's not possible...
Especially on a college campus
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SBW

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Yes, me.

A serious illness in my late teens meant I had to avoid alcohol till my mid 20s. After that, I'd learned to enjoy myself without drink, so never got the habit - It makes no difference if I drink or not really. Even these days, I only occasionally enjoy getting drunk & in some ways, it can even help - you are more observant of other folks responses IMO. :)

Of course, this never stopped me from going out to pubs, clubs, parties etc with my drinking mates. Nor have I had any issues with anyones choice to drink or not drink.

This also meant I saved a fortune and could easilly drive/ride a motorbike, so a lot less hassle getting home etc. :)
 

jdbman11

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Drinking can easily alter your way of thinking, your impulses, your actions, and definitely your state of mind. I prefer meeting women or going on dates while sober to keep on the top of my game. A drink or two can take the nerves off but once I start to feel loose it's time to cut it off. Besides, you need to rely on your skills and knowledge not the alcohol.
 

Mr. Bond

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Of course. Alcohol makes people more relaxed, but as long as you're relaxed you should be fine. Besides, drunk sex isn't nearly as good as sober sex anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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alcohol is considered the social lubricant because it temporarily nukes the part of your brain for reasoning which is basically your mind. With out your mind holding you back by being attached to outcomes,consequences,anxiety and all that bs your free and you don't care what happens. The downside to it is hangover,sleeping with fat and ugly chicks, getting robbed, waking up next to 3 other dudes, and liver problems if you overdose. Its very possible to get laid with out it just don't let your mind hold you back. I personally don't recommend using external sources such as alcohol to get girls.
 

War Against Betaism

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Most of the times I get laid is when I'm not drunk.
 
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