"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Drinking with friends

Prodoge

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Does going out with friends (15 years +) and getting drunk hinder self inprovement ?

This happens probably two times a month and I feel like it sets me back to some extent. Mostly in my workout routine.

The thing is that we always have insane fun and get the best nights out together. And i don't want to lose them becausebwe have been friends since we have been 3 years old.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jifto

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How old are you buddy?
This is only my opinion so take it with a grain of salt:

Going out and getting drunk should stop sometime in your late 20's (not including NYE, travel, etc). I can't pinpoint an exact time, but it just feels like you turn a corner from being those fun loving guys to those older guys that everyone wonders wtf is wrong with. When I was 29 I just stopped cold for a year. Not a drop of booze, but still went out with friends. Man, being the sober one and just observing, there was a huge difference between the appearance of late 20's dudes being drunk and early 20's dudes.

On top of that, hangovers get worse and take away more time from self development. Google alcohol's effects on fitness too.

YMMV - but I think there is a lot to be said for social drinking, just not getting krunk.
 

Red Legg

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Does going out with friends (15 years +) and getting drunk hinder self inprovement ?

This happens probably two times a month and I feel like it sets me back to some extent. Mostly in my workout routine.

The thing is that we always have insane fun and get the best nights out together. And i don't want to lose them becausebwe have been friends since we have been 3 years old.
Lot's of things can set you back in workout routine.My girlfriend makes a mean lasagna,and other Italian dishes,this sets my weight loss back a bit and she knows it.
 

SmooveMooves

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No. You're fine. You're young. Have as much fun as you can. 2 times a month isn't going to make much of a difference. Plan your cheat days around when you're going out. Don't give up fun for improvement sake.

Don't forget why you pursue improvement, to be the best you possibly can be and elevate your life experiences. Time with friends is apart of that. Enjoy it while it lasts. There's people on this forum who would kill for friends to go out with once a month, let alone twice, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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