"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Piers Nivens

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How do you guys dress when you go out? Do you base it on mood or the type of place your going to?

blazers or jackets?
tshirts or button downs?
shoes or sneakers?
wear accessories like belts shades jewelry watches?

do you clean shave or keep facial hair?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FairShake

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Piers Nivens said:
How do you guys dress when you go out? Do you base it on mood or the type of place your going to?

blazers or jackets?
tshirts or button downs?
shoes or sneakers?
wear accessories like belts shades jewelry watches?

do you clean shave or keep facial hair?
No.
TShirts.
Sneaks.
Hell no, what am I a fagg? Shoestring to keep my pants up, cataract glasses if it's sunny.

What are you selling?
 

devilkingx2

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Piers Nivens said:
How do you guys dress when you go out? Do you base it on mood or the type of place your going to?

blazers or jackets? jackets, I'd never go anywhere fancy enough to require a blazer, though tbh it's too hot for either in my city right now

tshirts or button downs? T-shirts, they look better and I like them better

shoes or sneakers? sneakers, always, shoes suck.

wear accessories like belts shades jewelry watches? belt, shades if I have any and my trusty watch

do you clean shave or keep facial hair?
I keep whatever I have, which is usually little.
 

Maximus Rex

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How Does Rex Dress?

Like a big ole pimp.
 

IBreatheSpears

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Black leather jacket, maybe a black hoodie if it's cold.
T-shirt. Also black.
Boots. Black.
Belt with jeans (you guessed it, black), aviators if it's bright (I have light-sensitive eyes).

Looking to introduce some red because the only non-black clothes I have are some dark grey shirts and camo trousers I sometimes wear. I read about a study where people wearing red were rated as more attractive which is interesting. And black is a powerful colour so I think the combination will be good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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