"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dressing Like a man while in college?

SamMalone

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I used to wear a lot of old navy fitted t-shirts They are ok and cheap but I feel like they don't really fit my personality. I'm looking for something a little more manly. Old fashioned gentlemen type stuff without looking like a grandfather. Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Charm&Style

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try express, zara, buckle, macys

lol its not that hard to find what suits you (no matter what your budget is)
 

seanchai

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SamMalone said:
I used to wear a lot of old navy fitted t-shirts They are ok and cheap but I feel like they don't really fit my personality. I'm looking for something a little more manly. Old fashioned gentlemen type stuff without looking like a grandfather. Any suggestions?
What do you mean "old fashioned gentleman"? What specifically (i.e. saddle shoes, braces, bow ties, cuffed trew) would you like to incorporate into your style?
 

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I'm the exact opposite...I used to dress more stylishly and wear "nicer" clothes to school but now I'm in a tshirt all damn day...who cares...the point is to make yourself look clean and work on your body...I've stopped caring so much about impressing others...I feel stupid everytime I do something or buy something to impress others
 

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DJMaC23 said:
I'm the exact opposite...I used to dress more stylishly and wear "nicer" clothes to school but now I'm in a tshirt all damn day...who cares...the point is to make yourself look clean and work on your body...I've stopped caring so much about impressing others...I feel stupid everytime I do something or buy something to impress others
Yep same here. Wear what you want, just don't look like a ****ing slob.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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