"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dressing Like a man while in college?

SamMalone

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I used to wear a lot of old navy fitted t-shirts They are ok and cheap but I feel like they don't really fit my personality. I'm looking for something a little more manly. Old fashioned gentlemen type stuff without looking like a grandfather. Any suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm&Style

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try express, zara, buckle, macys

lol its not that hard to find what suits you (no matter what your budget is)
 

seanchai

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SamMalone said:
I used to wear a lot of old navy fitted t-shirts They are ok and cheap but I feel like they don't really fit my personality. I'm looking for something a little more manly. Old fashioned gentlemen type stuff without looking like a grandfather. Any suggestions?
What do you mean "old fashioned gentleman"? What specifically (i.e. saddle shoes, braces, bow ties, cuffed trew) would you like to incorporate into your style?
 

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I'm the exact opposite...I used to dress more stylishly and wear "nicer" clothes to school but now I'm in a tshirt all damn day...who cares...the point is to make yourself look clean and work on your body...I've stopped caring so much about impressing others...I feel stupid everytime I do something or buy something to impress others
 

Monster

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DJMaC23 said:
I'm the exact opposite...I used to dress more stylishly and wear "nicer" clothes to school but now I'm in a tshirt all damn day...who cares...the point is to make yourself look clean and work on your body...I've stopped caring so much about impressing others...I feel stupid everytime I do something or buy something to impress others
Yep same here. Wear what you want, just don't look like a ****ing slob.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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