"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dress younger and get younger females

warlock79

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Iam 28 and i been told i look 20 will it help getting younger females if i dress younger. What do you think
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sparky0000

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In most of this world 20 year old females want MUCH older guys. Maybe not in America. That is due to America's hatred of men and the whole college thing. However, in most of this planet 20 year old females are very mature and living in an adult world (discos, fancy bars, etc.). Hell, in much of this world 16 year old girls are doing the same.

In conclusion, Sparky would agree with being who you are. Don't make a fool of yourself trying to be what you are not. I am sure you would be a stud in many parts of this planet. So just remember that and relax.
 

theunflushables

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Yeah fvck trying to look young. Just look sharp and go out be your self. If you try to dress like you are younger, you just look like a 28 year old trying to look like a 20 year old. Embrace your maturity, its much better to look like a fashionable professional than a slacker college kid wearing a crumpled hollister hoodie.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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STR8UP

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The key is not trying to dress young, it's making sure you don't dress OLD.
 
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