"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dress like a lady!

bluenorther

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There was a story that came out of a Gettysburg battle reenactment a few years ago, but I've lost the original.
A woman reporter was covering this huge event, and she had the opportunity to experience it in three ways:
First, she wore man's clothing, period fashion, and posed as a contemporary reporter.
Okay... Next, she dressed in correct women's fashion for the time, and recorded her observations.

Finally, she went back to her own modern clothes, which she much preferred over the others.

She noticed right away, that as soon as she did this, the men all stopped tipping their hats to her.

And women wonder why there's no more "chivalry"!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jack McCrack

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I love dressing like a lady.

Just give me a bra and a pair of panties and I'm set for life.
 
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