"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dress code need advice fast

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im going to a charity event tonight with a girl ive been seeing over 3 years her whole family and sisters bf is going to be there too. my girlfriend said to me what you gonna wear n i said what ive got on( this was over the fone) n she said wats that n i said my dirty work clothes and she said yeah right . then i said i got a t shirt and jeans on im wearing that n she replied well everyone else is wearing a shirt and she wants me to wear one - any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B9

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chairty event? get your fecking suit on! It is the ultimate way to impress the ladies clotheswise.
 

Mr. Mystery II

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She said everyone is wearing a shirt!? Thats barbaric!!

Ask her what the dress code should be, she might just know seeing as she is attending the event also. In situations like this you really should use real world resources, not the discussion forum.

Mr. Mystery
 

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I didnt wear a shirt i went wearing my t shirt that says " if you dont like giving head keep your mouth shut"
 

jakeyboy

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LMFAO and how did she react?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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