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Anybody experience this with relative frequency?

It seems at some point in my sleeping state, I'll dream about a girl, normally in a sexual way. This occurs with about 75% of the girls I know or met or felt attraction toward, AND they always end up sexual or on that vibe. THEN when I wake up, I have driving urge to act out those dreams. Eventually the drive fades, in a matter of days, but as long as the dream persists in my memory bank, I'm like a cave man on a hunt to bonk some chick on the head then plow her.

I guess it seems like such a hard attraction because the way a person acts in a dream tends to NOT be consistent with how they are in real life, so when you dream about them, you're fantasizing about someone.

Just weird, because I can recall dreams as far back as my childhood, but the urges aren't there anymore. I just had 2 different dreams about 2 hotties I had dated or passed by (they were dating someone else, a friend, or a friend of a GF). It bugs you especially when you're trying to control your masturbatory urges. I feel like Josh Hartnet in "40days".



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Occasionally, I'll have a dream about fvcking my ex's sister. She was almost as hot as my ex. The absolute scary thing is I know I could. I can get almost any woman I want, and I'd succeed with her. However, I'm in a LTR and one of my best friends would disown me (he dated her for a brief time).
 

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I have dreams about girls I haven't spoken to in ages. They are rarely ever sexual though, they tend more towards the odd stories that you hear from a friend of a friend...

last sexual dream I had, I was biting one of my best friends sister's nipples, and she was moaning like a cat in heat.
 

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Yes. Especially since I don't masturbate. I dream a lot more now, and more sexual dreams about this same thing... I recently posted about one, with a student that had 3 vaginas!!

It also happened when I didn't have any porn to masturbate to, I'd be thinking "hmmm!... who is hot for me to masturbate?" And that woman would go to my "get" list.
 

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you think thats bad?

i still have really detailed dreams about my ex (who I dumped)

like really sexual intense dreams and ****.. really weird, it feels like we are still together even though I haven't seen her forever.
 

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yeah.. when I was younger I used to dream about all my missed opprotunties that i used to have.. like "god how could I have been so damn blind" moments. That's what motiatives me to make moves now.

any inkling that a woman in interested, assumign she is of the right attraction level=move

I had a dream about my ex giving me a hell of a BJ not too long ago
 

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YES. Particularly when I go home and don't see people for awhile, I have these dreams every night. It's kind of a nice feeling.
 

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The only bad thing about sex dreams is that they usually end too soon! :down:
 

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Hot Ice said:
The only bad thing about sex dreams is that they usually end too soon! :down:
yeah man, I went to 'Date movie' last night for a date, left her at home, and came home to sleep(no drink no party, so I was sober enough to dream:p)

I kept having weird scenes like I was directing some corny movie, and there was so much unnuendo. She was the star of the movie, and damn did I ever TRY to take advantage of her.

last thing I remember I had my hands running over her clothed body while she talked to me asking if I wanted her shirt, what I thought about the color of her bra, if her jeans were too tight.

Than the phone starts facking ringing, damned phone
 

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Than the phone starts facking ringing, damned phone
...And you wake up like DAMN I want to see the end of it!

Then there are those dreams where you are already ****ing and when you wake up you wonder did you actually moan or ****ed a pillow or some crazy **** while you were sleeping.. :p
 

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Hot Ice said:
The only bad thing about sex dreams is that they usually end too soon! :down:
Don't you hate that sh!t? That always happens.

When I was in college, I used to work in customer service at a call center and I must have had dreams about a dozen women that worked there. There were twice as many women working there than men. Too bad this site didn't exist back then.
 

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I've had a couple dreams about my past oneitis. When she started to show IOIs irl I had one more dream. I haven't dreamed about her in a while though. We were never having sex in the dreams, but in most of them we would kiss. When we didn't kiss, we would lock arms or something like that. Heh, kinda sad when I look back and see how infatuated I was. Feels fantastic to be better.
 

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A-Unit said:
Anybody experience this with relative frequency?

It seems at some point in my sleeping state, I'll dream about a girl, normally in a sexual way. This occurs with about 75% of the girls I know or met or felt attraction toward, AND they always end up sexual or on that vibe. THEN when I wake up, I have driving urge to act out those dreams. Eventually the drive fades, in a matter of days, but as long as the dream persists in my memory bank, I'm like a cave man on a hunt to bonk some chick on the head then plow her.
I know this sounds gross, but...

What usually happens in my case is that in my dream I end up plowing her (or almost plowing her) and blow my load in my sleep. This always wakes me up, and then I have to run to the bathroom and clean up a mess and get new underwear. And then the next morning, my urges are substantially lower than the previous night.

Happens every few weeks in spurts. (And no, I don't masturbate either.)

BGMan
 

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BGMan said:
I know this sounds gross, but...

What usually happens in my case is that in my dream I end up plowing her (or almost plowing her) and blow my load in my sleep. This always wakes me up, and then I have to run to the bathroom and clean up a mess and get new underwear. And then the next morning, my urges are substantially lower than the previous night.

Happens every few weeks in spurts. (And no, I don't masturbate either.)

BGMan
Can anybody say wet dream?
 

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I don't know if this counts for much, but I just masturbated to the image of a pregnant friend.
 
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One time I went camping with a bunch of friends and slept in a tent with some ppl and this girl I really liked. Well I had a dream that I was making out with her and a friend from this class we had together..it ended too soon and when I woke up and turned to my left, there she was snoring! it was really really awkward and cool at the same time. Too bad I was AFC then
 
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