"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dream Interpretation

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This are actually two dreams

first night
I dream that i was in my house, and my mother gave me a snake in a box. Something like a pet... I kept it the attic, but suddenly the snake broke out. The first thing i did was run to my room, and other members of my family did this. And i remember, seeing this snake going to the bathroom...

A then i woke up...

I remember my emotions as being really scared. Have had dreams of snakes before...

second night
This night after the previous dream, i remember dreaming about my ex. I was at a house, not hers. She was there, and her family.. and we didn't broke up the nice way. There was some tension, and since then we haven't spoken.
In the dream i remember, asking her why she acted in a way... and she asked me something why i acted in a way that i did. Then i remember, that a guy was there for her, and that she sends him away and me staying. Then later i remember sitting at a table with her mother and her sister.

The feelings i had were that of a kind of utopia, but then again as if i was searching for fogiveness with her family. The really strange thing is that i don't have a reason for this.

Does anyone here has some insight in dreams or interpretation of dreams?

I focused more on the feelings i got in the dreams.. and maybe they are interconnected. The strange thing is i remember both of the dreams very clearly!

first dream symbol: snake

second dream symbol: white tableclothing

or maybe it just doesn't mean anything!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TooColdUlrick

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a snake and a white table cloth?

hmmm...you are gay and don't yet know it.
 

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I dream about bizarre **** all the time

rather than look at the meaning of objects, look at the overall meaning of the dream, and how those objects affect you in the dream. Or rather, how you react to those objects

are good things happening to you? are bad things happening to you?

I found that when I was really down on myself, I'd often dream of bad things happening to me, or me failing at things. once my "inner voice" improved, and I was happier about myself, I would often have dreams where I accomplished something, or overcame a challenge and people were praising me.

Quite often, a dream is just a reflection of yourself.
 

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the first dream comes out to mean that ur a closet homosexual, the 2nd dream is karma getting back at you for leaving the pizza in the oven
 

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From taking pyschology and learning about dream interpretation ill analyz your first dream for you.

The snake that was in your dream resembled a penis.

You runing down the hall was an act of sex.

The bathroom resembles and open door, which is usualy a vagina.

Boxes resemble vaginas.

I really cant tell you what the hell you were dreaming about but it had to do with sex. This is what i got off my pysch book on dreams. Hoped it helps.

peace

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To me, dreams don't mean anything. They are just a firing of neurons or whatever in the brain while it attempts to keep those neurons strong. The connections begin to deteriorate after a while of unuse, and the brain is just randomly letting those things fire to keep your memory fresh. Most of the time, you ALWAYS dream, but rarely remember it unless you wake up DURING the dream.

Don't try to analyze these things, if you have a weird one, joke around with friends about it. Otherwise, shrug them off.

BTW: Not sure if it's neurons or some other fancy science words, anybody know?
 

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Yeah, I think dreams are just to keep your brain from getting bored while you're sleeping. haha!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
Yeah, I think dreams are just to keep your brain from getting bored while you're sleeping. haha!
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard, dreams give sleep a time duration. without them it would feel like you close and open your eyes and 8 hours has elapsed
 

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Fluffy said:
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard, dreams give sleep a time duration. without them it would feel like you close and open your eyes and 8 hours has elapsed

I wouldnt mind that actually. Would certainly make things more efficient.

So long as I get up in time...
 
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