"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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theGAME50

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theres this girl who i hung out with in the year 2002. i fell in love with her, but she didnt like me. i was 14 at the time so i didnt really take her on a date.....

then i hung out with her again in 2004.... first day i was able to drive i picked her up and got ice cream for my birthday. i tried to kiss her and she turned her head.


now its 2006. i have a girlfiend (she knows it). we hung out again. i took her out on a real date. dinner and a movie. tried to put my arm around her in the movie theatre and she said no. however, i did hold her hand during the movie, and played with her hair later in the night. then later in the car i was hugging her, put my arm around her, and i gave her KISSSESSS all over her cheeks cuz she looked so cute.

she said she is depressed. she left her LTR for a kid who she liked, and he turned out to be gay. her grandma just died. she has no girlfriends ethier. just guy friends who she smokes weed with. she said shes lonely...and is going to be lonely on valentines day.


i can't sleep anymore because i think about her all the time. i like her more than my girlfriend. however, its time to face the truth. i don't think that i will ever be with her.


how do you think my story will end?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Centaurion

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Stop being so fvcking Emo and end yourself. Please.
 

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When a woman tells a man that she is lonely, that is a BIG hint. Of course, if you're too much into the friend zone, she may consider you one the girls, in which case, you should not take that as a hint.


wtf that conflicts?
Second part negates the second part

Im lonely means what? whats the hint?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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