"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theGAME50

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theres this girl who i hung out with in the year 2002. i fell in love with her, but she didnt like me. i was 14 at the time so i didnt really take her on a date.....

then i hung out with her again in 2004.... first day i was able to drive i picked her up and got ice cream for my birthday. i tried to kiss her and she turned her head.


now its 2006. i have a girlfiend (she knows it). we hung out again. i took her out on a real date. dinner and a movie. tried to put my arm around her in the movie theatre and she said no. however, i did hold her hand during the movie, and played with her hair later in the night. then later in the car i was hugging her, put my arm around her, and i gave her KISSSESSS all over her cheeks cuz she looked so cute.

she said she is depressed. she left her LTR for a kid who she liked, and he turned out to be gay. her grandma just died. she has no girlfriends ethier. just guy friends who she smokes weed with. she said shes lonely...and is going to be lonely on valentines day.


i can't sleep anymore because i think about her all the time. i like her more than my girlfriend. however, its time to face the truth. i don't think that i will ever be with her.


how do you think my story will end?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Centaurion

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Stop being so fvcking Emo and end yourself. Please.
 

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When a woman tells a man that she is lonely, that is a BIG hint. Of course, if you're too much into the friend zone, she may consider you one the girls, in which case, you should not take that as a hint.


wtf that conflicts?
Second part negates the second part

Im lonely means what? whats the hint?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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