"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drea de Matteo Won Emmy for Sopranos Supporting Role in 2004; Now, She's Joined OnlyFans at Age 51

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Interesting Tidbits from the Story

Drea de Matteo had a consistent role on "The Sopranos" from 1999-2006 as a longer term girlfriend of one of the mob guy. She was on "The Sopranos" for every season except for the final one.

After 2006 (age 34), her career slowed a bit. She did have roles on one later season of "Desperate Housewives" (2009-2010, when "Desperate Housewives" was declining in popularity), "Sons of Anarchy" (2011-2014) and "Shades of Blue" (2016-2018). "Shades of Blue" was on NBC and was cancelled after 3 seasons.

Few of her movie roles since 2006 have been significant.

She claims to be doing this because of her refusal to vaccinate for COVID-19, which is supposedly costing her acting roles. This is likely a partial truth, but her career was slowing in the years prior to the pandemic.

She had 2 kids in her late 30s, now ages 15 and 12. They knew about OnlyFans and encouraged her to join. This is notable because....

1. She was able to produce 2 kids between ages 35-40 despite reduced fertility.
2. Her kids knew about porn so young

Will Drea de Matteo make good money on OnlyFans? How many people want to see a 51 year old Drea de Matteo nude or nearly nude?

In some ways, I see this as a way for Drea to get attention and for easier money at 51. Drea did get a bachelor's degree from New York University in the 1990s. She probably could have gotten some random white collar job somewhere to bring in some money until retirement at 60-65. A random white collar line of work for 10-15 years until retirement would be more soul crushing than posting pics on OnlyFans though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damn.

What can I say? Ofcourse this plays into how women view life. She was probably hot at 34, but refuses to acknowledge she missed the boat for monetizing her "beauty " the easiest way possible.

Yet we talk about the Wall ect .i am speechless and that is stupidity by itself; it's the ..millionth message about a delusional woman I've seen this year alone.

And no, a white collar job where she can get 2 hours paid lunch breaks and has a boss whose in love with her is NOT more soul crushing...
 

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I don't known what's more sad, kids encouraging their mom to be on onlyfans or mom joining onlyfans because her kids told her to do it.
 
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