“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What is a better idea to draw for a women?

  • Something simple (flower/animal)

    Votes: 4 57.1%
  • Portrait of her

    Votes: 3 42.9%

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NobodyCares1

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I realize that this is a stupid idea but anyways. To keep this short, I'm good at drawing and have some of my drawings on my FB page and basically every girl that I have something more serious with wants a picture from me and that's fine, this thread is more about what is a better idea to draw for a girl.

Either just something simple as a flower or some animal (I prefer flower though) or to put a little (a lot) more efford and draw her portrait?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A woman wants a leader. A man to fark her brains out when she's horny. A man to smack some sucker down for pinching her arse in public. A strong man that has the potential to lead a family in a prosperous life style. A strong man to stand by and be proud of and say "that's my man right there!". A man that can keep her safe.

Draw her a picture of your D!CK dude!!!!! And make sure to include the balls, that's the best part.
 

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They don't exclude each other, but drawing a girl is kind of a form of worship. You have to be careful not to friend zone yourself unless you really don't care. I would not share my drawings with a girl until she has earned it from me by showing me some dedication first.
 

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Well yes, you're right abot that. And don't worry I'm not in the friendzone with her, though I'm thinking that drawing her a rose might seem too much too...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Draw an object, never her. Sarge is right... it's a subtle form of worship if you draw her.

Beware the pitfalls of "romance". It softens her perception of you as a man more than you might think. If you can leverage your drawing skills to impress the ladies, great. Just be real careful about your subject matter. She will interpret in her own way.
 

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Have you hit it?
 

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Another fellow artist, awesome. Being able to draw well gives you a nice edge; it adds dimension to your character. I've been drawing since I was 4 with almost 2 decades of professional instruction. I too have an album on FB with my artwork. First, it's an automatic 'in' with artsy girls. And some of the hottest chicks are in fashion design (and to a lesser degree graphic design/painting/etc). Second, if you have a tougher exterior, it softens you up. I'm Russian (certain stereotypes go along with this), pretty muscular/ripped, and have somewhat of an intimidating presence. Using art as a backdrop has gotten me laid plenty of times ('omg he has a sensitive side'). It's also an opener for girls. Yes, girls open guys too, but they like to notice and comment on something plausibly deniable just like guys do ('nice necklace where'd you get it').

I've gotten plenty of requests from girls to draw them something. If we're at a bar and I break the news to her, I grab a napkin and a pen and do a 60 second flower sketch for her - usually seals the deal.

I also use it as a default excuse to head back to my place 'let's get out of here, I want to show you my artwork'.

If you have something 'serious' with a girl or even if you want to get her back to your place, tell her you'll sketch her - nude. You can leave out the nude part at first, but weave in your artsy terms later like 'I love the beauty of the female form and I want to get better at it. Let me draw you, this can be our little secret and years later you can look at it and remember this night'. Or some BS like that.

It works great, just make sure you do it right. If you haven't fvcked her yet, use it as a means to seal the deal, don't put much time into it. If you've already fvcked her, it's a great present. Draw her naked on her birthday, she'll never forget it and all it costs you is some paint and some time.
 

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Draw her, stop letting a forum dictate what you can and cannot do.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
Have you hit it?
Depends on what you mean when you say hit it, everytime we meet we kiss she holds my hand and so on, but I haven't slept with her. Now before you say anything I live in a very religious region and most of the girls just won't sleep with you so easy. Some might, but even if she would we didn't have a place where we could do it yet. But I saw her tits :yes:

@muscleman Thanks for the reply, though I don't paint, I only draw, and at my age it's a little unrealistic that she would just let me draw her naked. Also if we could find a place where we would be alone for a long enough time and she would be naked I wouldn't be drawing :D

And about the sensitive side... well, a lot of the girls tell me that I look like an angel but a better example would be that some tell me that I look like Robert Pattison in Twilight (though I don't see the similarity except maybe that I have a similar haircut) A lot of the girls who don't know me thinks that I'm a nice guy... but after they get to know me they say that I just look like a nice guy. When picking up girls I use a lot of sacrasm and negs, etc. and don't show much emotions so I probably don't look like a nice guy anymore, though not a complete jerk either.

Also so rose is fine?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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uhm... I don't think she'll sleep with me so easily. As I said this is a different culture than you are used to, basically 85% of guys I know are still virgins, same for girls. I'm a virgin too. And still even if she would sleep with me I don't think we'll have the oportunity anytime soon.

Although it's a good idea to use the drawing as some kind of reward for something.
 

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muscleman said:
Since you haven't slept with her, don't draw her anything. It's a reward for her putting out.
This, this, and more this.

I have tons of romantic/creative ideas I'm just itching to use on women, the catch is we have to bang first. I don't show my full hand before sex.

Think of it like previewing songs on itunes. They give you a 90 second snippet so you can decide whether or not you want to buy the song. They don't let you preview the entire song. Gotta leave something to the imagination.

You can certainly tell her you draw, or maybe show her some stuff you've already done. But do not draw something for her until you bang.
 

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NobodyCares1 said:
I realize that this is a stupid idea but anyways. To keep this short, I'm good at drawing and have some of my drawings on my FB page and basically every girl that I have something more serious with wants a picture from me and that's fine, this thread is more about what is a better idea to draw for a girl.

Either just something simple as a flower or some animal (I prefer flower though) or to put a little (a lot) more efford and draw her portrait?

Well, when I was about a month in my last relationship, I drew a picture of my dream home... which was a castle in a sort of rainbow-filled world with color everywhere and gigantic mushrooms that touch the sky.
I then gave it to my girl and said, "This is my dream home."

Heheh.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Draw an object, never her. Sarge is right... it's a subtle form of worship if you draw her.
I hardly ever disagree with Atom Smasher, but I have drawn so many women and if you capture them (in a simple cartoon way that takes between 30 seconds and 30 minutes to draw) and they like it enough to show their friends, they will worship you.

But paint a portrait of her and you're her stalker.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I voted... draw her a flower dude.

I would also like to suggest you follow Musclemans advice and start practicing your game using his advice as a template.

"But everyones a virgin." Lame 18 year old excuse to validate inaction. You know deep inside you want to hit that. And you are in the friend zone BTW. It's time to start practicing. Making mistakes now is better than later.

"I'm a virgin" Your here right? so you obviously want to change that. Click the link below labeled "The DJ Bible" and make the teachings there your own.
 

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lol, are you really suggesting that everyone who haven't slept with his girlfriend is in the friendzone? Then I guess a lot of guys here are in the friendzone.

Yes I want to hit that, but I tell you girls here tend to take things slower. It might not be the case with this one but I still need to find a place where I could hit that. But you're right about the musclemans advice, it's really good.
 
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