"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drawing the line between 'C+F' and '*******'.

Viper

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Yeah, well, I've read up on C+F and I'm going to try and use some of what I've learned on girls at school tommorow. Something I wonder about though, is, where do you draw the line between 'C+F' and 'Being a plain *******'?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphathree

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Change yourself, not your pickup lines, trust me.

If you want to experiment with C&F , do so at your own risk. You need the inner game to back it up
 

escobar04

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I'm a pretty ****y dude, naturally, but I'm even more of a real-life A-hole to women (naturally)

...and I dont think that its really good

I have to work on that
 

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Eh, you people. ****y and Funny is magic. You just gotta know how to work it, and as Alphathree pointed out, you need inner game to back it up. :)

And as for where do you draw the line between C&F and *******? Uhh, when no one is laughing at your C&F, especially her... then you've crossed the line. I can't say you have to go easy on the ****y part, cause that's what get's you their attention. :/ If you can manage to go REALLY hard on the ****y, and still keep 'em laughing, you're a master. :p

Good luck.
 
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