Jeremymichael
Senior Don Juan
Hi Everyone,
I'm going through a bit of poor patch at the moment. Very little going on. Not sure what it's like in the States at the moment, but in my town it seems to be getting hard to meet any decent women. Most girls I meet are imature, loud or reserved, naive or just damn boring.
One girl who works at a bar once said I was the most exciting guy in the bar. I liked her, thought she was intelligent, only to find she lacks qualities in other areas (oh and has many male friends!). I thought about how she talks to people, and really she is the same to everyone. When she said I was exciting I though "wow" how great I must be, but only to find out she seems to flater most people she meets. Also she never gives off any vibes of fancing anyone. She never uses kino, talks matter of fact, not dreamy at all. It might be she fancies you, but you would never see it her demeaner. No prolonged eye contact. Maybe that's how it is in South Africa?. If she thinks I'm so exciting why does she not make a point of talking me, instead she just talks to everyone the same way. One night there was live music in my bar and she just talked to this same bloke for about an hour (who is happily married), whats that all about?.. I do have some common interest she likes motown music, football, drinking and she is good talker, so maybe not all is lost?
Then there are the other girls. Another one who seemed a class act. I asked her out (or inferred it on text message) and I got totally ignored. How about replying and saying that she's not interested, instead of just ignoring it. Pathetic really and then she disappeared from my local bar for three months just to add to the whole experience!. Some would say I should have phoned her, but without a little feedback, why bother?. If she was interest, she could have flirted back, for exampe, "sounds interesting tell me more?", or words to the effect. No just nothing, no wonder I lost interest.
The bars in my town seem to be full of men and any girls you see have three or four blokes with them.
Oh well, I think its the weather. Too damn cold at the moment. I'll keep trying!!
I'm going through a bit of poor patch at the moment. Very little going on. Not sure what it's like in the States at the moment, but in my town it seems to be getting hard to meet any decent women. Most girls I meet are imature, loud or reserved, naive or just damn boring.
One girl who works at a bar once said I was the most exciting guy in the bar. I liked her, thought she was intelligent, only to find she lacks qualities in other areas (oh and has many male friends!). I thought about how she talks to people, and really she is the same to everyone. When she said I was exciting I though "wow" how great I must be, but only to find out she seems to flater most people she meets. Also she never gives off any vibes of fancing anyone. She never uses kino, talks matter of fact, not dreamy at all. It might be she fancies you, but you would never see it her demeaner. No prolonged eye contact. Maybe that's how it is in South Africa?. If she thinks I'm so exciting why does she not make a point of talking me, instead she just talks to everyone the same way. One night there was live music in my bar and she just talked to this same bloke for about an hour (who is happily married), whats that all about?.. I do have some common interest she likes motown music, football, drinking and she is good talker, so maybe not all is lost?
Then there are the other girls. Another one who seemed a class act. I asked her out (or inferred it on text message) and I got totally ignored. How about replying and saying that she's not interested, instead of just ignoring it. Pathetic really and then she disappeared from my local bar for three months just to add to the whole experience!. Some would say I should have phoned her, but without a little feedback, why bother?. If she was interest, she could have flirted back, for exampe, "sounds interesting tell me more?", or words to the effect. No just nothing, no wonder I lost interest.
The bars in my town seem to be full of men and any girls you see have three or four blokes with them.
Oh well, I think its the weather. Too damn cold at the moment. I'll keep trying!!
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