"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Drama girl.

N

nilescrane

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2009
Messages
40
Reaction score
3
Anyone deal with the kind of girl whose father left her family at a young age, and her LTR cheated on her, and now she doesn't trust men, despite being a sexual person (who asked me my **** size during our first online conversation and admitted to sleeping naked without me asking.)

She strikes me as an AW type. She's interested in me, but I doubt she'll put out first meeting. She strikes me as the type that goes to bars to get hit on but not leave with any guys. It seems she's convinced she's looking for LTR, and the problem is, due to distance (an hour, which she'll be driving to meet me) I don't have the luxury of waiting it out. At best, we'll be hanging out once a week, and I don't want to wait a month or more to f*** her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top