"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dracula Untold

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Did you watch it? I did and I really liked it.

Despite I have an acute form of allergy when it comes of drama and get reaction even to the slightest forms, in this case not only it didnt bother me but in fact I appreciate what was going on between him and his wife.

It wasnt disturbing probably because it was not the "afc drama" we are used in hollywood, he loved her and was ready to sacrifice for his family while she was grateful for that and conscious of what he was doing meant and costed.

He is the closest thing to the alpha we preach here, a man in comand not for the sake of it but for doing what is the best for those who depends on him, ready to take extreme decisions for what is best even at his own cost and against all previous rule.

I spare the details to avoid spoilers but Im sure those who saw it got what I mean.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I still think "Drive" or "Conan the barbarian" (the original one)

is the most alpha movies.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
I still think "Drive" or "Conan the barbarian" (the original one)

is the most alpha movies.
Drive? Ryan Goseling? In the movie, that guy is a straight beta. I watched it with a chick, and even she thought the guy was a loser.
 

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MidnightCity said:
idk man. i thought he was as alpha as they come (character)

i know all these alpha male movies have to have a fem friendly side to them (even the anti-heroes) but driver was a ruthless MF'r

i think driver perfectly depicts the full spectrum of ideal alpha male.

caring, gentle protector,romantic and mysterious, capable destroyer
I might have to watch it again to point out specific details, but that was my overall impression with him: Going after the single mom, buying her flowers and $hit, even though it seemed she FZ'd him from the get go (don't remember if they ended up banging) Yes, I agree, his job, what he did on the side, how he handled himself there....Alpha. But like in the Deer Hunter, DeNero's character was a bada$$, but when it came to women, he seemed to be the clueless "nice guy".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I didn't expect much of it and I was pleasantly surprised. Wasn't bored a single moment.
 
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