"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DR- The movies

SamePendo

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So. . .

Yesterday, Monday, I start making calls to arrange for my dates this week. I had said to the BlockBuster chick that I would call her on Saturday but I forgot. So I called her and other chicks. The BlockB chick said she was free on Wednesday BUT, she had this and that, and a café with her friends, and she arranged that on Sunday. Oh well, I don't give a **** now do I *****? So I said, ok, so, you call me when you are free ok? Done, I nexted her, let's see if the paranoid calls. (She sent me these crazy messages etc, I'll get into it when she calls me and I continue the original post on her).

Soooo... I called this chick, who I've invited to breakfast before, like, a month ago, or more.

SP Hey!
Lights Of Chick *LOC* Heey!
SP So, where are you taking me out to?
LOC Uhmm... me? We'll I can't right noww...
SP Really? That's too bad, see you then.. bye!
LOC By.... *I hung up before I heard the complete bye bye*

Mins pass by....

LOC Heeyyy
SP Hi there
LOC So... do you want to go to the movies?
SP Your treat?
LOC Sure!
SP Well, of course! When?
LOC Right now!
SP Oh, yes master, anything else?
...Some hassle on the location... and I agree to meet her there in 30 min.


So I get there, ask her where she is, and there she was in the entrance of the freaking theatre, waiting for me.. standing hahahaha.

We go in, I talk about wanting to see this horror flick, but it wasn't there anymore, so we decide on another movie. I talk with the chick that gives us the tickets, they always have name tags, I ask them about the pronunciation of their names, if it's difficult, where it's from, if she can't speak the language from where she is from, or where her parents are from, talk about the weather, a movie, whatever. And go bye bye to her when we go.

Then, we go to where they sell all the ****. So I tell her to buy me something.. she says sure. So I look for the most expensive thing, which I didn't like, some sick combo, but then I decided on the next thing in price, a combo with hotdog, popcorn, and soda. Haha. So I start talking to this hot chick. About her name, it's Arabic, and I ask her if she can say Hi, she says she can't so I ask my date how she thinks they say hi... so I come up with a way to say hi in arabic. Somebody cyber slap me, because I didn't get her #. I'll go this or next week again though, and I'll get it. I swear to sosuave.

So, we go to the movie, and start talking and all. I'm completely focused on the movie, don't even pay attention to her, I'm a happy boy eating my stuff and watching the movie. She keeps on breaking my concentation asking silly ****. Oh well. I didn't give quite in. I got tons of butter in the popcorn, she didn't want any of it, and insisted on me cleaning my fingers and my mouth, not nagged though..just insisted.

So then, she puts her head on my shoulder, then.. time passes by, and she hugs my arm and still puts her head. Then I hug her, and passed my right hand all over her body for the rest of the movie, she also touched me all over. I kind of sense she wanted to kiss me or something, but the movie was good. In one ocation, when someone wanted to pass thorugh the path, we separated, and then, I went in for the kiss, and we kind of kissed, I don't know what the **** it was.

Then we kept on with the movie, and I touched and touched her everywhere while she did the same, although she did it less.

At one point I thought "Man! You should be making out!" But then I thought that well, I really wasn't that much into her, and the movie was good, so.. I kept on with the movie.

Why is she lights off chick?

She's sexy, quite sexy and all. But I don't like her, I really started asking her out because I saw that many guys liked her, so I won her over those ****ers, but, I don't find her that sexy. But with the lights out, she seemed very very sexy.

I like milfs.

So, we end, and we go out, and I tell her I want to go for a free coffee that a chick offered me when I passed by and she recognized me, which did happen. And then I basically said bye bye.. and, well, we parted ways, and I went for my coffee. The owner of the shop was there. And yes, next time I'll also get her number, I swear on sosuave.

Tips in the FR:

-Talk on the phone with the chicks and ask them where they are going to take you out.
-Talk with everyone in the places you go, especially the workers, they are bored out of their minds. And chicks can also end up being your... dates.
-Do whatever you want to do, if you want to watch a ****ing movie, watch it.
-The rest are basics.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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superchristx

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Wow, man. Aces.

I gotta say, you have big brass ones. I reckon LOC was into you because you were disiniterested, whereas all these guys fall all over themselves for her.

Maybe I'm too sensitive and nice (crazy right?) but I would be hesitant to play a game this hardcore. All that kino probably made her REALLY want you, and then you just blew her off! I hope she didn't go home and cry. At the very least, she's saying "why didn't he make a move? Maybe I'm not pretty enough for him, maybe I should have grabbed his d!ck right there in the theater." In any case, I'd bet $ that she tries to win you over with sex next time you're together ... if you give her another chance.
 

SamePendo

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The funny thing is, I thought I was going to act like a horny dog, with all the no masturbation ****. But I didn't.

And if any sex goes on, it will be with the lights off ;).
 

Desdinova

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All that kino probably made her REALLY want you, and then you just blew her off! I hope she didn't go home and cry
The funny thing is it's like a drug with women. You treat them fairly 5hitty, and they'll come back for more. One chick I NEXTed who I treated like this, kept calling me months later.

The mindset I go with is, "I'm going out to have fun, she's just coming along for the ride." You can be as self-centered as you want, and she'll still be into you. It's a royal slap in the face for nice guys.
 
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