"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DR: Rope!!! GiRL (Best Date EVER!!)

LeviathanIYG

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Yesterday I wrote this FR: Rope!!! about a girl I sarged at the hardware store i setup a date for today and I just got back from it.

Now I have this reputation for taking girls on really fun and unique dates and today was no different.

I took her to “laser challenge” it's like this huge dark room that’s all separated and has all these hiding places and flashing lights and they give you this vest to wear and a laser gun. The point of the game is to run around shooting each other and whoever gets shot the most loses.

Never taken a girl to a place like this but it was definitely worth it.

When I picked her up..

Her: Heyyyy (kiss on the cheek and a slight hug)

Me: Hey how are you?

Her: I'm ok (smiling) you?

Me: Great

Her: So what’s the big surprise Mr., where are we going?

Me: hahaha do you know what a surprise is?

Her: Ok ok I’ll shut up

(We jump in my car and I drive to the place it’s like an arcade but when you go upstairs they have the laser game. She kept playfully hitting me because I wouldn’t tell her throughout the car ride.)

Her: An arcade?

Me: Just wait, don’t jump to conclusions

Blah blah blah!!

So we get to the place she gets real excited, she says it’ll be fun and she will kick my ass hahaha yeh right. We start playing the game and I was going full splinter cell mode hiding behind corners, sneaking and using stealth. At one point I snuck up behind her grabbed her with my arm around her chest and put the gun to her head..

Her: Ahhhhh!!

I start poking her in the sides with the gun and she starts giggling then I smell her hair and smell her hair and say “you smell soooo good” then BAM!! She goes in for the kiss. It was one of those kisses were I’m standing behind and she’ turns her head a lil, you guys get the idea. She was such a good kisser out of the 100’s of girls I’ve kissed I’d have to say she was the best kisser ever.

Anyway we kept playing a little longer it was fun when we finished she was like
Her: OMG that was the best first date I had in a long time.

Me: Date? Hahaha don’t flatter yourself hun

Her: (punches me playfully) F*ck youuu, ey so what do you want to do now?

Me: Oh I’m busy today I got to go home

Her: Ohhhh (grabs my arm) come on I want to do somethingggg

Me: Not today, we’ll do something soon I promise, unless you want to meet up later tonight

Her: Ok yeh I’ll be in the city

Blah blah blah!! We setup another date for tonight and I know that stuff is not cool seeing so much of her when you first meet her but I get this vibe from this girl.

I’m seriously Crazy about her and I just meet her yesterday and I’m not one of those guys that falls for a girl in a second but this girls has something about her.

She isn’t a slut she seems down to earth and she’s a lot of fun. It was my best first date ever…..........

Anyway I’m going to go out with her tonight I’ll let use know how it goes…

Enjoy guys…
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Swoop

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Hey, Levi, remember how we talked about a girl personality can sometimes capture you like no other.. haha sounds like it's happening to you too.

Btw, bro, after we finished talking about my "girl", I bump to her. It was funny because we both were starring at each other, we couldnt' recognize each other at first because we are both out of our usual outfits and it's not dark. It was the first time we see each other in the daylight. So it was funny. Then we immediately knew, and did some small talks...

Probably gonna see her tonight...if I wake up in time..

Have fun in your date.
 

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Got to love that the playful punching. This girl who Iam currently seeing playfully punches me when I crack on something I see when we go somewhere. She playfully hits me and says "Your so mean" or "Stop it they will hear you". Now when we start fooling around and I push her too far,we start to wrestle. Well she wrestles for her school and is good at it. Its awesome how she makes me earn the kisses when we wrestle,have not met a chick like her... Now if only I could find a way to get past the kissing/making out game.
 

LeviathanIYG

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hahaha good luck Swoop remember get to know her better tonight so you can setup a date.

Just a few tips:

-Don't crowd her to much

-Don't be staring at her all night

-Do your own thing make her see you talking to other girls

-Don't go AFC mode, hold back that inner AFC. If you start to feel AFC mode coming on WALK AWAY

-isolate Isolate ISOLATE!!!

-Go for the kiss close, do it Hitch style you go 80% and make her come in the other 20%. Kiss closing is unbelievably important in setting up a date.

-KINO KINO KINO

Yeh that’s all I got right now I'm sure you will do good tonight man and keep me updated.
 
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