"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DR: kiss closed nicely....

lebRambo

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hey guys.

a few of you (those who replied or have viewed the thread) would know of my date with HBGreatAss a little while ago. I failed to kiss close on the first date.

Today i saw her again. Started off with some nice kino and c+f, since I noticed that she responded well to the sarcastic, ****y (non-self-deprecating) stuff.

We went and laid down under a tree at uni, it was nicely breezy and all that. Just a fun, light date.

Noticed her lips were a little dry. I commented that she should use more chapstick. I took mine out of my bag, and rubbed it on her lips, kissed her and said "much better..." :cool:

The only thing that might have been a little off was after I kissed her a couple of times, I say "whats up with your little peck kisses?"

she's like "I kiss like that during the day...". Any idea on the possible meanings of this?


anyway, had a great time, talked about going clubbing together later.

Total cost: $0 (oh yeah! :cool: )

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I kiss like that during the day...". Any idea on the possible meanings of this?

translates to

"Take me out in the evening and see what you'll get *grin* "
 

lebRambo

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToFatBirds
Yep deffo, I agree, it means she wants more, get her out in the evening!!
haha, sweet. I thought that was it. :D
 
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