"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DR: Distracted by video games

everywomanshero

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Whilst waiting on the start of our movie, my date and I engagged in some video games. This is the first time I played Tekken 5. I got really into the game, forgot to pay attention to my girl. and when I turned around she was long gone.

As it were, she simply lost some change in one of the machines and went to to get it returned. For a momment, I thought she had gotten upset and went to the bathroom.

Scary movies are the best to take a date on if one must do "dinner and a movie".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spiker

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I just cant picture this....
you played tekken 5 on a date???

mmmmmmm
 

wolfie

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Tip: Devil Jin is way toned down compared to Jin in Tekken Tag Tournament
 
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