hey guys,
haven't posted a DR for a while, so im looking for comments, suggestions, etc.
okay, so I met HB21st at my mate's 21st last friday. She was a little tipsy, so I didnt wanna try isolation there, but she was into me, touching me and rubbing my chest, etc.
So we had coffee yesterday. I picked this place because it was next to a mall, and I like to venue change during coffee dates.
She sends me a text about 10 minutes before we are supposed to meet with "I might be a few minutes late. Sorry!" I text back with "Tsk tsk, this isnt scoring you any points young lady "
She arrives about 10 minutes late, im like meh, she told me at least so thats sorta okay. We chat and stuff and straight away im glad about how easy she is to talk to. Despite my conscious effort, convo was about 50/50, even though I was trying to get her to talk about herself more. I know that a girl asking a lot of questions and being interested is a good thing, because it means that she wants to solidify her attraction by knowing something about the object of her desires. Turns out we know a lot of the same people (this familiarity and rapport is a continuing thread throughout the date, as I find out about her liking a little known band that im really into and a movie that I love but most girls dont, I say something like "its so weird that we have all this stuff in common" to continue building rapport) and we talk about how weird it is that people are so closely linked by other people, etc.
Once she found out what I do and what degree i'm studying, she was like "OMG your totally a genius!" etc. I played it well by not denying it, but not being over the top. Something like "I do my best.."
For the rest of the date she was jokingly calling me a nerd and stuff, and she's piss herself laughing whenever we'd walk past a nerd store and i'd pretend that she's holding me back from dashing in
After coffee, I say "lets go for a walk..." and we walk through the mall into a department store, and walk past the male underwear (this was deliberate on my part, to set this up
HB21st: "so what kind of man are you when it comes to underwear..?"
I just smirk and say "i guess you're just going to have to find out." Not very smooth for someone who had thought this through, so I kinda blew it there. But she liked it, smiled and playfully tickled me, etc.
For the rest of the walk through the department store we had great convo, C+F about how good I look in a suit, what kind of underwear she wears (walking past the girls underwear section, and she replies "you'll just have to find out.." Damn, this is why I love this game ), etc.
She keeps smiling at me and giggling when we have direct EC, and I bust on her for being starstruck.
By the time we got to the cologne section in the department store, she was holding my hand, rubbing my back, had her arm around my waist, putting my arm on her hips/a$$ etc. So the kino stuff was working well. I'd bust on her and she'd pout cutely and I'd pull her in for a hug and go "awww..thats so cute!"
On the night we met, she was so embarrassed that she was tipsy and kept trying to seem sober and cool, so I bust on her for burying her face in my neck on friday night and purring about how she loves my cologne. I pretended like I was gonna show her the cologne but then turned away, saying that its gonna stay my little secret
I could tell this was a good date because i didnt notice the time flying by. By the time I checked, it had been two hours! So I say that I got heaps of work to do and should be heading off. I walk her back to her car and then head to mine and go home.
Rundown of the date:
- venue change : when the initial coffee convo starts winding down, lift the mood back up by venue changing.
- kino : no matter how much a girl likes you, you'll have to do your share first of suggestive or sexually forward kino (touching her back, arm around her waist, etc.) before she will open up. But if she likes you, she'll open up mighty fast and return all that kino twice over
- Deep rapport building sprinkled with light C+F works very well on girls that are already somewhat sold on you. I always assume attraction, and build on that. Because, if she is out with you, how could she NOT be attracted to you? Run with it, it will make the whole thing a lot easier
I messaged her last night saying we should hang out again soon and she replies saying that she wants to. So we'll most likely do something on sunday I'm thinking a picnic by a lake. Nothing too fancy, maybe chinese food and drinks? Any dudes here experts on good second dates?
haven't posted a DR for a while, so im looking for comments, suggestions, etc.
okay, so I met HB21st at my mate's 21st last friday. She was a little tipsy, so I didnt wanna try isolation there, but she was into me, touching me and rubbing my chest, etc.
So we had coffee yesterday. I picked this place because it was next to a mall, and I like to venue change during coffee dates.
She sends me a text about 10 minutes before we are supposed to meet with "I might be a few minutes late. Sorry!" I text back with "Tsk tsk, this isnt scoring you any points young lady "
She arrives about 10 minutes late, im like meh, she told me at least so thats sorta okay. We chat and stuff and straight away im glad about how easy she is to talk to. Despite my conscious effort, convo was about 50/50, even though I was trying to get her to talk about herself more. I know that a girl asking a lot of questions and being interested is a good thing, because it means that she wants to solidify her attraction by knowing something about the object of her desires. Turns out we know a lot of the same people (this familiarity and rapport is a continuing thread throughout the date, as I find out about her liking a little known band that im really into and a movie that I love but most girls dont, I say something like "its so weird that we have all this stuff in common" to continue building rapport) and we talk about how weird it is that people are so closely linked by other people, etc.
Once she found out what I do and what degree i'm studying, she was like "OMG your totally a genius!" etc. I played it well by not denying it, but not being over the top. Something like "I do my best.."
For the rest of the date she was jokingly calling me a nerd and stuff, and she's piss herself laughing whenever we'd walk past a nerd store and i'd pretend that she's holding me back from dashing in
After coffee, I say "lets go for a walk..." and we walk through the mall into a department store, and walk past the male underwear (this was deliberate on my part, to set this up
HB21st: "so what kind of man are you when it comes to underwear..?"
I just smirk and say "i guess you're just going to have to find out." Not very smooth for someone who had thought this through, so I kinda blew it there. But she liked it, smiled and playfully tickled me, etc.
For the rest of the walk through the department store we had great convo, C+F about how good I look in a suit, what kind of underwear she wears (walking past the girls underwear section, and she replies "you'll just have to find out.." Damn, this is why I love this game ), etc.
She keeps smiling at me and giggling when we have direct EC, and I bust on her for being starstruck.
By the time we got to the cologne section in the department store, she was holding my hand, rubbing my back, had her arm around my waist, putting my arm on her hips/a$$ etc. So the kino stuff was working well. I'd bust on her and she'd pout cutely and I'd pull her in for a hug and go "awww..thats so cute!"
On the night we met, she was so embarrassed that she was tipsy and kept trying to seem sober and cool, so I bust on her for burying her face in my neck on friday night and purring about how she loves my cologne. I pretended like I was gonna show her the cologne but then turned away, saying that its gonna stay my little secret
I could tell this was a good date because i didnt notice the time flying by. By the time I checked, it had been two hours! So I say that I got heaps of work to do and should be heading off. I walk her back to her car and then head to mine and go home.
Rundown of the date:
- venue change : when the initial coffee convo starts winding down, lift the mood back up by venue changing.
- kino : no matter how much a girl likes you, you'll have to do your share first of suggestive or sexually forward kino (touching her back, arm around her waist, etc.) before she will open up. But if she likes you, she'll open up mighty fast and return all that kino twice over
- Deep rapport building sprinkled with light C+F works very well on girls that are already somewhat sold on you. I always assume attraction, and build on that. Because, if she is out with you, how could she NOT be attracted to you? Run with it, it will make the whole thing a lot easier
I messaged her last night saying we should hang out again soon and she replies saying that she wants to. So we'll most likely do something on sunday I'm thinking a picnic by a lake. Nothing too fancy, maybe chinese food and drinks? Any dudes here experts on good second dates?