"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heretolearn

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not if you have an affair with a rich Australian woman...................


crazy law and article considering he paid her a monthly allowance and gifts for 20 yrs. Plus her claim was 'relaxing the guy', I am sure a hooker or other pursuits would have been cheaper...
 

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We have the worst women in the world and a system that contributes to them being the way they are. Not to mention the left wing pro-feminist, anti-male media. I know that most people on this forum are American and make posts about American women, but Aussie women are far worse. They display all the negative traits that US posters describe, in addition to being less feminine and more crude than American women. I stopped dating Aussie women a long time ago and only date foreign women who live here. Definitely a change for the better.
 

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WOW! Even the mistress can get alimony!

....I must be doing something wrong!
 

jophil28

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seagull said:
We have the worst women in the world and a system that contributes to them being the way they are. Not to mention the left wing pro-feminist, anti-male media. I know that most people on this forum are American and make posts about American women, but Aussie women are far worse. They display all the negative traits that US posters describe, in addition to being less feminine and more crude than American women. I stopped dating Aussie women a long time ago and only date foreign women who live here. Definitely a change for the better.
I agree about the leftie press here , BUT this legislation was drafted by Federal Govt lawyers. WE have a mindless, incompetent, do nothing that matters, Leftist Govt who , in their self righteous arrogance have appointed themselves as social reformers.

To those of you in the USA, expect an avalanche of this kind of socialist crap in Obama's second term.

Canada may introduce it first.

Most Aussie women are very similar to Nth American woman in their attitudes. I agree with the OP about their crudeness and lack of sophistication and they are LAZY to boot . Socially and emotionally primitive may also be a fitting description.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ElChoclo

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That legislation was introduced for 2 reasons mainly. The de facto men were getting a better deal than the married men, so there had to be an evening up of the score because otherwise nobody would get married anymore, also it was supposedly a back door (excuse any pun) method for introducing gay marriage.

Don't blame just the Federal Government either Jophil, your State Labor Governments had to refer their powers to the Federal Government to pull this one off. The Federal Government only has power over "marriage" not de facto relationships.
 
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