Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
Brief Intro: I met this new hostess at work who is also new to this city. We work the same days, but never together(She works during the day, I work at night). About a week ago we finally worked together and I spit my game on her. Got obvious IOI's the whole time, ended up exchanging facebook/myspace accounts, and # closed her. We texted/called eachother for a week and half if not most of them initiated by her. I invited her to go out for some 'ice cream' with me TONIGHT.
Yesterday: So since monday ive been trying to find someone who could cover my shift tonight just for this little date. Yesterday I got a call from the owner of the store telling me that I was going to ruin everyones schedule in both branches of their restaurant by asking for tonight off and he sounded pretty pissed. I figured that ice cream night can come sometime else and it wasnt worth screwing 2 restaurant branches over and possibly getting fired so I told him to forget it and Ill just work. I called the store and my target answered and we flirted on the phone for a bit before I gave her the bad news.
Later on that night: Normally when I come into work I would neg her right when I walk in, but there were alot of costumers and it was busy so i didnt bother. Also, usually as she's about to leave she always finds me and says bye with a little bit of kino(hand on my back or shoulder, or sometimes on my face for some reason...i think she's aiming for a hug, but I just dont supplicate) but last night she hardly said anything to me and just left. I figured she must have been going through sh!t or was just really stressed out by work. It was then when a highly trusted co-worker of mine told me what happened earlier that day that might have affected her. He told me that while the staff was eating lunch the older co-workers(male and female in their late 30's) were asking her if she had a BF(she doesnt) and one of those mutherfcukers straight up asks "YOU LIKE 'REBOUND MATERIAL'?! YOU DO DON'T YOU!?". After this fcuker asks that she basically got harrassed by the other older people asking the same thing. According to my friend she kept saying "NO! its not like that! we're just friends!"...Regardless, im pretty sure she was embarrassed being put on the spotlight like that and basically getting *******'d even if she liked me or not.(a few minutes after this, was when I called and broke the date).
Here are my questions:
1) After I told her I had to cancel our ice cream outing, she was the one trying to find another day that SHE was available because she's gonna be with her family for the next 2 weeks. I simply said "Ill let you know after new years". Was breaking the date a good idea? Did it raise or lower her IL toward me?
2) By my whack ass co-workers embarrassing her and basically putting our sh!t on blast...did that affect her IL also? Was it a game-killer?
Yesterday: So since monday ive been trying to find someone who could cover my shift tonight just for this little date. Yesterday I got a call from the owner of the store telling me that I was going to ruin everyones schedule in both branches of their restaurant by asking for tonight off and he sounded pretty pissed. I figured that ice cream night can come sometime else and it wasnt worth screwing 2 restaurant branches over and possibly getting fired so I told him to forget it and Ill just work. I called the store and my target answered and we flirted on the phone for a bit before I gave her the bad news.
Later on that night: Normally when I come into work I would neg her right when I walk in, but there were alot of costumers and it was busy so i didnt bother. Also, usually as she's about to leave she always finds me and says bye with a little bit of kino(hand on my back or shoulder, or sometimes on my face for some reason...i think she's aiming for a hug, but I just dont supplicate) but last night she hardly said anything to me and just left. I figured she must have been going through sh!t or was just really stressed out by work. It was then when a highly trusted co-worker of mine told me what happened earlier that day that might have affected her. He told me that while the staff was eating lunch the older co-workers(male and female in their late 30's) were asking her if she had a BF(she doesnt) and one of those mutherfcukers straight up asks "YOU LIKE 'REBOUND MATERIAL'?! YOU DO DON'T YOU!?". After this fcuker asks that she basically got harrassed by the other older people asking the same thing. According to my friend she kept saying "NO! its not like that! we're just friends!"...Regardless, im pretty sure she was embarrassed being put on the spotlight like that and basically getting *******'d even if she liked me or not.(a few minutes after this, was when I called and broke the date).
Here are my questions:
1) After I told her I had to cancel our ice cream outing, she was the one trying to find another day that SHE was available because she's gonna be with her family for the next 2 weeks. I simply said "Ill let you know after new years". Was breaking the date a good idea? Did it raise or lower her IL toward me?
2) By my whack ass co-workers embarrassing her and basically putting our sh!t on blast...did that affect her IL also? Was it a game-killer?
