"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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double standards yo?

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and I don't mean for women, I mean for men. So I was on this date with this girl in my school and it's going well and then she mentions how I "hangout" with other girls also. We are not officially going out so I don't see the problem. When a girl is dating two guys at the same time (not officially in a relationship with either) and then dumps one for the other, the dumped guy always asks "what happened"?? and the girl will try to play it off cool and say "what do you mean? I just saw you as a friend all along" even though it was obvious she was flirting/coming on to him.

women like to keep their options open but can't handle it when we do the same?
man, women are are the biggest hypocrites lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For your own sake of Personal growth do not finish things with the word "YO" that is a sure fire way to not get laid ever...
 

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vitor said:
For your own sake of Personal growth do not finish things with the word "YO" that is a sure fire way to not get laid ever...
If youre going to criticize his use of yo, at the very least use proper puncuation.
 
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