Double standards.... women expect trust, privacy, respect.. yet...

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

Double standards.... women expect trust, privacy, respect.. .yet... I just got a call from my ex-girlfriend about me having told one of her ex-boyfriends that she cheated on him... this was a YEAR ago, I had long since forgotten and here she is calling me out of the blue to grill me on "breach of trust", when she told me he was going to dump her and that she had already cheated on him. So I informed him because I knew the relationship was over and he was the DUMPER, and she the DUMPEE, and he sounded like a good guy and I look out for 'the brothers', even if I dont know them that well, its in my nature to look out for others. So I told him that she cheated on him so he would be wise to stay consider her nature in the future.

Funny thing is she thinks this is all a violation of 'trust' she had in me, meanwhile she left me and did the same thing to me... I swear sometimes its women like this that make me feel women are an inferior sex... even though I know deep down its not true and their are bad eggs on both sides but I see such bull**** and I can't help but think the world is just getting more and more ****ed up and me oriented... the world is producing men and women who are basically whiny, pussified overgrown children.

There is no such thing as respect, honor, watching out for the best interests of both parties, and just telling the truth... i.e. if you get involved with this chick, just take into account her nature... and how she works sexually, she has a history of cheating, etc, etc.

Next, I was with a girl the other day and she didn't slip that she had a boyfriend... I just got finished pulling my **** out of her mouth when her cell rang and he was calling to tell her he'd be home in 30 minutes, and I was thinking of that message posted by Tyler from the pickup community about women that someone posted to so-suave a while back under "anonymous"... and I was thinking how ****ing true it is.

 

[Vulpine]

I've developed a knee-jerk response that really shuts down a lot of garbage.

See, we've all got the "other women" riot act read to us by chicks. I understand this double standard crap, so my response?

"What's good for the gander is good for the goose."

or, the alternate...

"What's good for the gander was meant for the goose."

:rockon:
Ahh... a new twist on an old "women's lib era" saying that says with a slap in the face: "Welcome back to the beginning."

I encourage EVERYONE to use that saying. Make it 2007's phrase of the year. I wan't it used so much that Vince Vaughn uses it in a movie.

That's right, Vince. I'm not mad, playa, go. Just throw down a little "V" sign to give a little props. You know, be all smooth and use a two quantity in a convo... and speak with your hands... show a little two finger lovin' - give the nod to sosuave. "Hey barkeep, gimme two more beers." *hold up the "V"*

I mean, come on, dude. "Why would I WANT to do dishes?" We know you're on here. Befriending the new guy she brings over and playing video games to mess up their plans for the evening? :crackup:

(If anyone hasn't seen The Breakup, do. There's NO WAY Vince Vaugn hasn't been hanging around this site. Sure, their had to be a little sap to make the movie "realistic" to women - plus, Jennifer Anniston had to agree to do it.)

 

[Latinoman]

Double standards.... women expect trust, privacy, respect.. .yet... I just got a call from my ex-girlfriend about me having told one of her ex-boyfriends that she cheated on him... this was a YEAR ago, I had long since forgotten and here she is calling me out of the blue to grill me on "breach of trust", when she told me he was going to dump her and that she had already cheated on him. So I informed him because I knew the relationship was over and he was the DUMPER, and she the DUMPEE, and he sounded like a good guy and I look out for 'the brothers', even if I dont know them that well, its in my nature to look out for others. So I told him that she cheated on him so he would be wise to stay consider her nature in the future.

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Let me tell you one thing. Save the cra_p and the justifications.

You did what I personally would expect from a bitter woman to do.

You have a very serious character flaw. And the sad thing is that you are trying to justify your actions.

And as a man, I personally would have VERY serious issues on trusting somebody like you (regardless if you are a man or a woman...working for me or above me...being my friend or brother...etc.).

 

[Latinoman]

Funny thing is she thinks this is all a violation of 'trust' she had in me, meanwhile she left me and did the same thing to me... I swear sometimes its women like this that make me feel women are an inferior sex...

Once again... MEN and WOMEN, for the most part, both tend to leave their partners for others. That's a fact.

However, she is right about the "violation of trust" she had in you. And violating that trust (e.g. talking about something she confesed to you and asked you to keep to yourself) it is INDEED what makes you inferior to other men and to her.

This is something that I truly expect a woman to do. That's why I NEVER trust ANY woman 100%. Because trusting 100% would require for us to tell our woman (e.g. wives, girlfriends, etc.) our little secrets. But what about if there is a divorce or if I leave them for somebody else? Would my secret be safe?

I know THEIR secret would be safe with me. As I'm a man that can be trust and I consider "bitterness" a woman's trait. Not a man's. And that is why I said in my other post that you have a serious character flaw.

Take care and don't come in here fishing from sympathy or empathy. You might get it from some of the posters in here. But not from me.

 

[Vulpine]

You did what I personally would expect from a bitter woman to do.

You should check that, Latinoman.

Can you really criticize him for having this sort of sense of what's right and wrong? I mean, I think it demonstrates an "esprit de corps" that is admirable, not to mention somewhat ethical.

Furthermore, I find it just plain funny. I mean, it's kinda ironic, isn't it?

What's good for the gander is good for the goose, bro.

If anything, you should be criticizing the dude that he told, for HE spilled the beans that SonOfTheMostHigh tipped him off. That dude must be WBAFC... why would he tell her?

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

You did what I personally would expect from a bitter woman to do.

You have a very serious character flaw. And the sad thing is that you are trying to justify your actions.

What a bunch of horse ****. Real men are men of principle and character, not like many selfish animalistic pigs, who exist barely above the level of instinct being produced by modern society.

Real men know the value of respect and concern for others, they know whats right and wrong. The take a ****ing stand for what they believe in and don't let others push them around when it comes to principle. They have a sense of honor and love (good will) towards their fellow men (and women) and ideally wants the best for everyone, even though he knows we live in a very flawed and messed up world... and that most people are suffering from overwork, stress and lack of time today to develop as human beings as they sacrifice the majority of their time to distraction and a hedonous lifestyle, all the while parts of themselves are wasting away because of their addiction to commercialism and the materialistic money gods.

The truth is if the WBAFC of her ex boyfriend didn't break the code, I would not have had to deal with the flack. But no... like many guys out there... He's *****WHIPPED... whipped by the ***** and the beauty, so he spills every secret of his life just to get that girl with the nice bod and beautiful ***** who's going to cheat on him with the next person that pushes her emotional buttons the right way. I know this girl and I was looking out for him, what he does now if he takes her back is his own damn fault.

If looking out for others and acting like a grown up doesn't make me a real man in your eyes... then I'd gladly be considered that by you the rest of my days.

 

[Vulpine]

Bro's before Ho's.

Period.

This is not an option like some guys seem to want to think.

Bro's before Ho's.

Never, ever, EVER facking break that law. When you break that law, you officially re-classify yourself as a Ho.

 

[Vulpine]

And as a man, I personally would have VERY serious issues on trusting somebody like you.

He didn't squeal, he didn't narc the guy out, he didn't screw the guy over... he saved him from some humiliation. It would be one thing if dude wasn't doing the guy a favor...

And how does this dude repay him? By trying some coxblox sh!t like telling the chick about it... Haters.

Bro's before Ho's. Espirit de Corps.

No poonanny is worth dishonoring yourself for. I seriously think that there should be some sort of Hari Kiri type of self-induced punishment to redeem your honor after breaking the bro's before ho's code.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Yeah, its this double standard. Whenever a woman breaks trust, she always justifies it with some bull**** reason, and it is forgiven

yet if a guy does it... holy crapola, she rips him a new one.


Case in point, the other day, a former female friend of mine (former, cuz she started being a ***** and I had to let her go) came up to confront me regarding something my buddy had said to her ex.

Apparently, my buddy was consoling her ex, whom she broke up with, and he said to her ex "Yeah, shes pretty much being a ***** to everyone".
ex-bf ran back to the girl and told her.

as soon as she 'confronted me' for my buddy's act, 3 things popped into my head

1. Why the **** is this my concern? hes my buddy, but he can handle his own stuff, so go find him
2. her ex must still be a whipped little puppy if he runs back to her and discloses things that should be kept between 2 guys (thereby breaking the guy code). And finally...

3. hey, the truth hurts, lady

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

I found the thread!! **** yes... Called the truth about women

Here it is for your pleasure for the guys that missed it - This thread should be stickied, as a word of warning.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349

 

[SonOfTheMostHigh]

I seriously think that there should be some sort of Hari Kiri type of self-induced punishment to redeem your honor after breaking the bro's before ho's code.

:crackup: