"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Double standards? Sexism in advertising

MoreThanSmooth

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Okay, maybe I just have a hair-trigger with this stuff, but how is the following ad totally fine when any ads exploiting female sexuality are (often quite rightfully) considered sexist?


Imagine that the male model was replaced with a female model, and the women lurking behind the mirror and salivating over this slab of meat without his consent were replaced with men. Either young men...or Harvey Weinstein look-a-likes, take your pick.

What would the response to the ad be then?

Oh, and apparently ads promote unhealthy ideas of physical perfection in women only. Yet I can't say I've seen many men in RL who are as improbably chiselled as this chap, who probably spends hours in the gym every day.

I've seen a lot of ads recently actually where the whole punchline is women just laughing at a muscular, naked man running around in embarrassment. Or watching him from afar like this. Why is no one crying sexism over all of this?

Sigh.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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