"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Double Standards & fat chicks

bluenorther

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I'm just as sick & tired as all of you, being called "shallow" and "superficial" just because I won't mess around with fat chicks. Jeesh, I throw up in my mouth, imagining my face in some fat chick's coochie. That's not being shallow.

Here's what came finally to me: If being fat is such a superficial issue for women, why do they make it into an insurmountable challenge? It's only superficial when they WANT it to be-- ie, when they think they should be able to attract men in spite of it. As soon as it's time to knock off some poundage, the barriers go up. It's not so superficial, anymore!
:woo:
The crazy thing is, men are genuinely a lot more forgiving about serious sh*t a woman is struggling with in her life... stuff that tears her self esteem down so badly, she can't bear to let a decent man into her life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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snowdog

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bluenorther said:
I'm just as sick & tired as all of you, being called "shallow" and "superficial" just because I won't mess around with fat chicks. Jeesh, I throw up in my mouth, imagining my face in some fat chick's coochie. That's not being shallow.

Here's what came finally to me: If being fat is such a superficial issue for women, why do they make it into an insurmountable challenge? It's only superficial when they WANT it to be-- ie, when they think they should be able to attract men in spite of it. As soon as it's time to knock off some poundage, the barriers go up. It's not so superficial, anymore!
:woo:
The crazy thing is, men are genuinely a lot more forgiving about serious sh*t a woman is struggling with in her life... stuff that tears her self esteem down so badly, she can't bear to let a decent man into her life.
I don't really see what point you trying to make. It's perfectly normal that you don't like fat chicks, especially if you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint. A lot of guys don't care about the sh*t women are struggling with in their lives, especially if it's a one night stand.

Fat chicks that think they are hot are not only nasty, but annoying too. They have an identity crisis. These are usually also the chicks that block you from hanging out with their hot lady friends (as a rule of thumb, every hot girl has to have at least one fat friend).

In the end, I think we can draw the conclusion that the world will be a better place without fat chicks.


p.s. If you're genuinely offended by this, your sense of humor sucks.
 

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snowdog said:
Fat chicks that think they are hot are not only nasty, but annoying too. They have an identity crisis. These are usually also the chicks that block you from hanging out with their hot lady friends (as a rule of thumb, every hot girl has to have at least one fat friend).

In the end, I think we can draw the conclusion that the world will be a better place without fat chicks.


p.s. If you're genuinely offended by this, your sense of humor sucks.
Well, this isn't offensive, but women would think the world would be a better place if all men had fit bods.

The fat chicks have to c-block you because they know they barely get laid, even though they have a better chance of getting laid than a basic fat male.
 

zekko

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The fat chicks have to c-block you because they know they barely get laid, even though they have a better chance of getting laid than a basic fat male.
Speaking of this, I have seen some guys (usually younger) with some of the most unimaginable hosebeasts around. What the heck is wrong with these guys? Don't they have any standards? And I don't mean just physically either, just straight up nasty women. Are these guys that desperate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scion

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Gotta love the fatties that get an attitude because you won't **** them. Got approached by one one time and she asks me to hang out with her sometime. So I try and be nice and say that I'm busy and don't really have the time. She gets a attitude and **** hits the fan, "What? I'm not hot enough for you? You just want to **** skinny blonds? Well **** you *******!!". Lmao, couldn't stop laughing. Good times.
 
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