"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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double standards. expectations-these are chubby/fat gir

joe45

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ever dated or went out with a girl who had something i would call a double standard.
they expect and made indirect comments about myself not owning and having a car and access to a car, when ur a college student who has to
pay his own school fees. owning a car in Vancouver is expensive if your not making a lot
of money in your p/t 10/hr dead end job.
funny thing is the girl(nikki) didn;t even have a car, access to a car or even a drivers
licnese. at least i had my drivers license. hey why don't you get a car.

another girl i met in college before, was similar to the car incident,but didn't make as much a deal about it.
she asked me if i was going to pusue a degree , i wasn;t sure at that time. from talking to her , i can tell she wanted a
educated 4 yr degree guy. she even said she wanted a guy with a bachelor degree. funny thing is she doesn't even have a degree, but is a drop out of a community college pracitical
nursing 8 month program .lol wow double standard. hey.
a car was neccessary too, but talking to them it had to be someting decent. a newer or close to new model car. nothing too old, who nows. i could get a
car ,but nothing special and i just don't want the added expense. i work p/t in a 10/hr job and most of the money
goes to school fees. college schooling for a degree isn't cheap. 2400 for a semester not including 600 for textbooks.

i have female friends who had car , nothing nice -civic, accords and have dated guys who had no cars and also had
lower educaiton than them. they hhave a 4 yr univ degree. one of them drove me home from work , and the other i met
off the net. they are decent looking and not fat. too bad they aren't interested though.


funny thing is these 2 girls weren't hotties(thicker side, obese and chubbyand fat girls)
either, probably a 3.5,4 out of 10 according to my friends, my buddy met angela said a -4 lol . why i ask em out.
lol easier to get their numbers, and you now they going say oh YESS when u ask em out.funny these thicker
girls have high expectations, but aren't really like moedels.

you can't even tell b/c both of these girl, were like plain janes, hooodies, no make up, simple dressed and wearing
nothing fancy. u think they won't be like that, but they are. i guess it says to tell, you can't tell by looking.
i guess i was desperato at that time. lol.

i don't care what ppl here say. we are in the 21 st century and its all equal opportunity.girls should have univ degrees now, should have their own car. even if i had a car, i not going be driving you aorund all the time. not like some guys who are doormats do. i could get a car with my money, its just that i chose not to. i got better things to spend my $ on.

had any guys had this problem before, girls who lacked something, but expected the guy to have it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girls say all kinds of dumb things theres no need to stress it this much especially if they arent even hot

out of shape girls usually put up an act like they have high standards to mask the fact they cant get any except from losers and geeks
 

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They make these comments because they're insecure about being in that very position or worse.
 

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^ Couldn't have said it better myself...I see an awful lot of people in general doing this these days. Probably has something to do with the fact that that most people want 'something for nothing' and act like the world owes them something. Don't give 'em a second thought. These are TOXIC people.
 
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