"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was at MSN when I girl I know put in her nickname something like this:

"who needs toys when you've got man to toy with?"

I wonder what would happen if a man put something in these lines...

Friday I got flamed by a girl when I mentioned some song was for woman. You know, those "I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HER" songs... "I'LL NEVER BE WITH YOU!!!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!"

Things like this makes me love this forum even more. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amen to that, brother. I'm getting really sick of things like that. Especially feminist humour. You know... how women are supposed to be so much smarter than men and all that crap. What makes it even worse is that the media advocates feminist humour all the time, which gives it more power because it has more publicity (you'll notice that in most commercials and TV shows the men are always portrayed as being stupider than the women).

Oh, but what REALLY pisses me off is when men submit to feminist humour. You'll notice a lot of male comics make jokes like that. "Blah blah blah my woman controls me and I'm stupid 'cause I'm a man". **** like that. Doesn't make me laugh. What does make me laugh is that I know that 1) these guys' girlfriends are either butt-ugly or are going to dump them soon, and 2) these guys don't have any testicles.

Anyway, all that arrogant, egotistical bull**** about all women being smarter than men and being able to control men is just a security blanket for womenkind to distract them from the fact that they're weaker than us. They think they're more powerful because of all the AFCs out there, but when you put a woman in the presence of a real ****ing man, any power they might have had before flies out the window, and suddenly THEY are OUR toys.

Of course, that's not to say that I make a habit out of manipulating women or anything like that (If I see that she's a terrible person, I'll have my way with her and then ditch her on the side of the highway. If I see that she's a good person, I'll treat her with due respect). I just lose respect for anyone who advocates that bull**** anti-man perspective. ESPECIALLY if it's a man who's advocating it.
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Sean O said:
What does make me laugh is that I know that 1) these guys' girlfriends are either butt-ugly or are going to dump them soon, and 2) these guys don't have any testicles.
You know what? THAT IS exactly the reason that makes me like this whole thing at least a little. I think about it and get really upset, but this alone makes it somehow beautiful... like we know something most do not (and not want to, in fact).

I like how woman think they OWN me because they have a puh-zzy, and later get all WTF'ed up when I just walk away when she throw some sh1t at me. They hate being beaten at their own game.
 

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media portrays males as stupid guys cuz if they were to portray a regular blond american female as she is , wich is mostly stupid, they would have a fuc\king parade of feminists shouting outside theyr door about female rights and such. yeah i agree this world has become too feminine advocated , for example schools here are planned to benefit the females and their study habits , the career marked is also becoming too beneficitial to females, and what ticks me the most is the whole sexual harrasment thing , if u say one small detail about a female coworkers ass youl get sued lose your job and your house , but they can yap and yap for hours about the waterguys cute butt...... o_O
 

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I remember hearing about some statute passed where a certain percentage of a firefighting squadron has to consist of women. I also remember seeing videos of many of the women who tried out for the position failing the standard tests given to the men, and had to have modified tests to make it easier for them to get the job. Granted, some women were indeed capable of passing the men's tests, but I think that making the tests easier for women just to meet up to some arbitrary bull**** quota is the stupidest thing in the world. If I'm caught in a huge blaze and all I have to count on is some woman firefighter who only got the job because they made it easier for her, I won't feel too confident in my chances of survival.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ssj245 said:
how can we fight back and hold onto our power?
By fighting back.

Show that beotch whos better and who has to get on her knees and submit.

Now I'm not being a woman hater, but sme *****es don't deserve to be treated like women. That's only for the fine ladies who have class.
 

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Now I'm not being a woman hater, but sme *****es don't deserve to be treated like women. That's only for the fine ladies who have class.
Exactly. That's one of the main principles of this site: women have to PROVE to you that they're worth dating, 'cause not all of them are.
 

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The sad part about this is you guys actually give a sh*t.

You guys know the truth, so why you still b*tching about it ?
 

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^^ I think you're reading too far into what we're saying. We're not saying that all feminists should be shot and pissed on or anything like that. All we're doing is expressing our discontent with the feminist double standard, and our appreciation for our ability to rise above the consequential mindset of some women thanks to this site. You'd be lying if you said you've never verbalized an opinion. Besides, there's nothing wrong with having opinions, yeah?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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