"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Double Dating

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Me and my friend each closed on a number of 2 females who are friends. We were thinking about having a double date, but here's the dilemma:

If one person calls and sets something up, his value is lowered if he asked her to bring her friend along, showing that he can't go out on a date by himself.

If both call at the same time, it seems set up and also conveys DLV.

We both feel that the double date will be good if we can get it, because since we know each other really good we can make a lot of convo, from there we can try to isolate.

The question is: Who calls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You think way too much.

Just call and say "Hey, my friend and I are taking you two out. Be ready at so and so time. Dress scantily."

All that crap about value doesn't mean anything if you never even make the call.
 
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Cool thanks for the imput, we were going to call for sure off course, I've mostly had experience with just meeting 1 girl, I've never actually tried to double like this. But your probobly right were overthinking this stuff a bit much, I'll call them on wednesday and do just that tell them were taking them out.
 
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