Double date

[John Constantine]

So I got two tickets for a show as the first girl just blocked me instantly after I bought the ticket. She was probably playing with me. Stupid C unt. Anyway so I now have 2 options and I've set up the same date with two girls. I've met the first one yesterday but today I met a new one living in my town that looks to have a lot more interest so I've setup the same date just in case one of them is deciding to cancel last minute.

My question is : How do I set up the date with the second girl and cancel with the first one without losing the chance of a potential new plate ? She's hot and petite, totally my type. First one is 19 and the other one is 23.

First one would be a potential LTR plate and the 19 year old would be for entertainment purpose only

EDIT : The date is tomorrow

 

[marmel75]

This is a question for @guru1000

 

[John Constantine]

No more need for an answer, the potential LTR is sick so I canceled the show and invited the 19 years old at my house. She's on her way now, 1 hr 15 of driving. This is High interest hahaha

 

[marmel75]

No more need for an answer, the potential LTR is sick so I canceled the show and invited the 19 years old at my house. She's on her way now, 1 hr 15 of driving. This is High interest hahaha

Hopefully you handle your business...she is there for one reason only...

 

[CMNILS87]

When I was dating multiple plates I was against the idea of double booking, since you're always wasting someone's time.

 

[John Constantine]

Hopefully you handle your business...she is there for one reason only...

So it went pretty well, had sex first night, she slept at my place. She cuddled me a lot while sleeping, and she stayed yesterday too. Man, I ****ed up, she's 19, a lot of red flag and I still want to see her again. She's very sweet thought, very very nice body and she's touching, kissing me all the time. She was still texting with dude on tinder while with me, ( I was doing the same thing thought ), She was looking at every good looking guy even if they were like 18 years old, that made me uncomfortable but she's 19 so I guess it's normal. She was doing everything she could to make me jealous. I think an LTR with her would be a straight catastrophe but my AFC behavior are taking control over me. I hate this. She told me she want an LTR and doesnt want a **** buddy. My gut is saying me to not get feelings involved but keep her in my rotation because she's very nice to hangout with, sex is nice too.

How should I handle this ?

 

[guru1000]

When I was dating multiple plates I was against the idea of double booking, since you're always wasting someone's time.

True, in very few cases, but your statement presumes women do not double- or triple-book themselves and are not ready and fully prepared to waste your time if a better option came along. You'll find in the context of OLD first dates, most 8s and 9s will double- and triple-book dates.

I advocate fair play with your fellow man, friend, family, or business relationship--but in the context of OLD dating, all play is fair.

 

[marmel75]

So it went pretty well, had sex first night, she slept at my place. She cuddled me a lot while sleeping, and she stayed yesterday too. Man, I ****ed up, she's 19, a lot of red flag and I still want to see her again. She's very sweet thought, very very nice body and she's touching, kissing me all the time. She was still texting with dude on tinder while with me, ( I was doing the same thing thought ), She was looking at every good looking guy even if they were like 18 years old, that made me uncomfortable but she's 19 so I guess it's normal. She was doing everything she could to make me jealous. I think an LTR with her would be a straight catastrophe but my AFC behavior are taking control over me. I hate this. She told me she want an LTR and doesnt want a **** buddy. My gut is saying me to not get feelings involved but keep her in my rotation because she's very nice to hangout with, sex is nice too.

How should I handle this ?

Just chill...don't worry about any of that stuff she is doing. You should not have any thoughts of an LTR, just bang her. Don't act like you've never had sex before, just be a chill dude.