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Next Friday my buddies girlfriend arranged to have a double date with this girl she works with and me. They decided that they want to go to the Zoo where they have this big Christmas thing going on and it is sort of romantic, we actually went there last year with my buddy and our now ex girlfriends. Anyway, next Friday happens to be my birthday and since I don't have anything special planned I am actually excited to go one this blind/double date. All I know about the girls is that she is blonde, attractive and from Indiana.

I am pretty confident with the situation and really I am not too worried about the date, but I don't want to come off as a total loser either by going on a blind date on my birthday.

Any advice for blind dates, or excuses for being so available on my birthday?
 

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Leave the Zoo with her. Don't let her in on your Birthday just yet.
 
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imho a blind date on your bday is dlv. My advice is to lie and say its not your bday or that you had a party/whatever a few days ago ect.
 
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saber said:
imho a blind date on your bday is dlv. My advice is to lie and say its not your bday or that you had a party/whatever a few days ago ect.
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A lie would bring your value down even further, especially if the girl finds out. I see no problem with it. Don't bring it up unless she does.
 
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saber said:
imho a blind date on your bday is dlv. My advice is to lie and say its not your bday or that you had a party/whatever a few days ago ect.
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I see the logic in your thought, but why is it necessary to have a party or get together (or any celebration, really) for your birthday? Maybe for pinnacle ones, like 21, I can see how you want to get your buddies out drinking, but other than that, it's just another year. I see so many people doing a lot of dumb things because "it's their birthday". It happens every year, guys!

I don't recommend lying, but you also don't need to bring it up, it's not really that important.
 

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Thanks for your advice on dealing with the bday, I guess I won't bring it up, any advice on the Blind Date, should I treat it differently than a normal date?
 
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