Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Double # Close - It really IS all about confidence

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Hey guys. So I'm no Brad Pitt but I'm relearning the essentials of being a DJ after a bad divorce. Anyways, I'm out bowling for my 4 year old girls birthday. Brought her 4 and 3 year old cousins with.

I notice I'm getting a lot of looks. Then I notice it's HBs with great IOIs. My waitress gives me the receipt. She writes her number on there and "I'm off at 2:00 :)". She is a cute HB 7 for sure. Totally unsolicited #!

Well I spot an HB 9.5 bowling with her 6ish friend. Totally out of my league. Smoking hot blonde! Nicest T&A in the place. She keeps locking eye contact. Then she starts parading herself a bit. Bouncing around, playing with her navel...all with heavy EC.

Well the first # gave me confidence but I wasn't about to approach with my daughter. The girls go pay and leave. Then the HB 9.5 comes back in and acts like she's looking for something.

Me: Are you missing something?
HB: Yeah I think I forgot something (obviously nothing there)
Me: No girl, you know that's not what I meant
HB: (BIG SMILE) You have fun teaching these girls
Me: I give private lessons, special request only
HB: (BIG smile and speechless)
Me: Give me your number
HB: (Writes it on my hand. She was holding a pen!)
Me: Name?
HB: Kourtney
Me: Bye Kourtney. (get up and walk away).

So why do women love me with the kids? Because I'm confident about something else and not even thinking about chasing them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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217 said:
Hey guys. So I'm no Brad Pitt but I'm relearning the essentials of being a DJ after a bad divorce. Anyways, I'm out bowling for my 4 year old girls birthday. Brought her 4 and 3 year old cousins with.

I notice I'm getting a lot of looks. Then I notice it's HBs with great IOIs. My waitress gives me the receipt. She writes her number on there and "I'm off at 2:00 :)". She is a cute HB 7 for sure. Totally unsolicited #!

Well I spot an HB 9.5 bowling with her 6ish friend. Totally out of my league. Smoking hot blonde! Nicest T&A in the place. She keeps locking eye contact. Then she starts parading herself a bit. Bouncing around, playing with her navel...all with heavy EC.

Well the first # gave me confidence but I wasn't about to approach with my daughter. The girls go pay and leave. Then the HB 9.5 comes back in and acts like she's looking for something.

Me: Are you missing something?
HB: Yeah I think I forgot something (obviously nothing there)
Me: No girl, you know that's not what I meant
HB: (BIG SMILE) You have fun teaching these girls
Me: I give private lessons, special request only
HB: (BIG smile and speechless)
Me: Give me your number
HB: (Writes it on my hand. She was holding a pen!)
Me: Name?
HB: Kourtney
Me: Bye Kourtney. (get up and walk away).

So why do women love me with the kids? Because I'm confident about something else and not even thinking about chasing them.
Pretty nice job with the Blonde, ::thumbs up::
 

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good work
yeah thats just how it goes
part of this is the key to getting numbers is simply asking
or telling "hey youre cool, whats a number I can text you at"

I did 100 approaches in Los Angeles, compliment, small talk, then asking each and every girl for their number after 2-3 minutes of basic conversation

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/201...is-a-numbers-game-the-odds-are-in-your-favor/

theres nothing to lose whatsoever
 
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