"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Double-booked

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Hey guys, I made a recent thread on calling HB8
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209127.

Anyway, I felt that it was sketch. I called up another HB8 today and she accepted to go on the date (same time, same place). So now I'm in a weird spot.

Both accepted but girl 1 was going to tell me the day of, once she found out her schedule. (could be a blow off, who knows).

Girl 2 is hot and she seemed flustered when I called her haha. Kind of nervous but she accepted and was asking lots of questions.

What do you think a good strategy would be?
Call girl 1 and tell her don't bother I already have a date?
Tell her that I found a date but let's do something another day.
Take both? :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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European-DJ

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Why would you even consider letting the girls know you have another date? That's stupid. Just tell them something else came up, you don't even have to let then know what.
 

Dgwizdal

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saw your last thread - nice job. Now tell girl number 1 on Friday - WHETHER OR NOT SHE SAYS SHE CAN GO - that something else came up anyway and then go with the second. You will save face if she declines and DHV if she can as you are not a man that is waiting around. Hopefully she finds out you went with another chick and her hamster will be a spinnin.:up:
 
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