"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, I made a recent thread on calling HB8
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209127.

Anyway, I felt that it was sketch. I called up another HB8 today and she accepted to go on the date (same time, same place). So now I'm in a weird spot.

Both accepted but girl 1 was going to tell me the day of, once she found out her schedule. (could be a blow off, who knows).

Girl 2 is hot and she seemed flustered when I called her haha. Kind of nervous but she accepted and was asking lots of questions.

What do you think a good strategy would be?
Call girl 1 and tell her don't bother I already have a date?
Tell her that I found a date but let's do something another day.
Take both? :crazy:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why would you even consider letting the girls know you have another date? That's stupid. Just tell them something else came up, you don't even have to let then know what.
 
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saw your last thread - nice job. Now tell girl number 1 on Friday - WHETHER OR NOT SHE SAYS SHE CAN GO - that something else came up anyway and then go with the second. You will save face if she declines and DHV if she can as you are not a man that is waiting around. Hopefully she finds out you went with another chick and her hamster will be a spinnin.:up:
 
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